10/28/2026
I refuse to spend my whole life saving money my daughters only get to enjoy when I’m dead.
And yes, I realize this is a slightly ridiculous thing for an estate planning attorney to say.
I just got back from another trip with my family, and as I was looking through all of the pictures I had this moment of thinking…
God, I have traveled A LOT this year.
I've spent a lot of money traveling this year too.
And for a second I had that little voice in my head wondering what my clients or other people in my life might think about that.
But then I realized something.
I am REALLY freaking proud of it.
I’ve served over 1000+ locals, hosted over 40+ seminars, and have posted over 300 times in my estate planning practice in the last 2 years.
THAT IS INSANE!!!
I've worked incredibly hard to build a life where I can take my daughters places, eat at incredible restaurants, buy the concert tickets, go on the Disney cruise, and do things with my family that I genuinely never dreamed I'd be able to do.
And I refuse to feel guilty about actually enjoying that life with them.
Obviously I'm saving for retirement. I'm planning for my daughters' futures. I have my own estate plan and absolutely intend to leave things behind for them someday.
I literally help people do that for a living. 😂
But I don't want the BEST parts of everything I've worked for to be experienced by my daughters after I'm gone.
I want to be there too.
I want to go to Paris or the Disney Cruise WITH THEM.
I’d rather plan to help my oldest daughter eventually put a down payment on a house and get to celebrate Christmas there WITH them.
I’d rather buy the ridiculous pageant or concert tickets and scream NEXT to them.
I’d rather spend the money on a fancy restaurant or extravagant room service we have ALWAYS wanted to try and laugh about how much the bill was afterward.
And trust me - I’m not made of money here.
Anyone in Massachusetts knows how expensive it is to live and do business here.
BUT I want to watch their faces, be in the pictures, and have stories we will tell for 20+ years.
It’s worth doing it now rather than stock piling for “later.”
And then one day, when I’m gone, they will inherit everything I’ve left behind.
And until then - I plan on living some of that inheritance WITH them.
And based on these pictures, it doesn’t seem like they have any problems with it. 🤣
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