13/09/2026
Good morning, everyone who love justice.
I hope you are all having a great day.
I have read the comments, including the emotional reactions, and I have taken your opinions into consideration.
When I analyse a case, advocate for rights, or give legal commentary, if you find something important or valuable, write the point down and discuss it with your lawyer. You can also DM me to request advice or ask for legal assistance.
Every lawyer has their own area of expertise and their own way of studying, analysing and approaching legal documents. What one lawyer considers irrelevant, another lawyer may identify as important. If you find something I raise relevant, take note of it.
But please do not come to my page, DM me, or call me to tell me what I should or should not discuss, or why I should keep my legal opinion private for someone personally.
I am not privately hired. Know the difference.
I am principled in my dealings. I do not go looking for people to advise or attack. I also understand my professional boundaries and what should or should not be said.
The Obasi case is discussed strictly on the basis of what the claimant, Judy, herself placed in the public domain.
May petitioned DPA. The document was posted publicly, and when I read it, I identified something I considered sufficiently important to warrant filing a petition before the NBA concerning his professional conduct.
Sometimes what one lawyer sees through their legal lens may be different from what another lawyer sees.
I speak on substance and on what people themselves choose to place in the public domain. If you do not want the public discussing your case, do not turn it into a public spectacle.
As the saying goes: he who carries ant-infested firewood should not be surprised when lizards come visiting.
Like I have said repeatedly, I am here for the public. I am not here for any blogger or content creator.
Bigamy is not “content.” It is a real legal issue. If your husband marries another woman, or your wife marries another man while still legally married to you, the law exists for a reason. That is what I am advocating for. When we finish with one issue, we move to the next.
My commentary concerning Judy and Yul comes from the substance of what they themselves have placed in the public domain.
So far, the person who appears to have largely minded her own business is May Yul Edochie. She was online for years without turning her private marital affairs into public entertainment.
Her husband and the other woman publicly associated with him brought much of that private situation into the public space, exposing May to public attention. A “Judy Warrior” platform was even created around the controversy, while May was already dealing with the breakdown of her marriage and loss of her child.
May Yul Edochie did not create MayNation.
MayNation developed from people around the world who witnessed what they believed was the unfair treatment of a woman online and collectively said, “No. Enough is enough.”
There is a difference.
Within MayNation, you have May’s actual fans. You also have supporters who support her without identifying as MayNation. And beyond that, a wider movement has developed around what many people believe May represents.
Many women have historically felt pressured into accepting polygamy or situations they never agreed to.
May said NO.
She chose herself and the wellbeing of her children.
That is the category I fall into.
For me, the movement represents women learning to prioritise their self-respect, dignity, mental wellbeing and, most importantly, the wellbeing of their children.
You do not have to remain in a toxic relationship simply “for the children.” Sometimes walking away creates the healthier environment children actually need.
At the same time, children have rights involving both parents. Where appropriate and safe, the other parent should have proper access and continue fulfilling their parental responsibilities.
If you are struggling financially, visit the nearest Legal Aid office or equivalent service in your country. In Nigeria, for example, legal assistance may be available depending on your circumstances.
You can seek legal advice about child maintenance and parental responsibilities whether or not you were married in court. Having a child creates responsibilities toward that child.
I am here to help in whatever way I reasonably can, but most importantly, to educate people about their rights and how the law can be used.
Ignorance of the law is no excuse.
So we are learning here.
You are welcome to engage in meaningful discussions. Ask questions where you do not understand something. Challenge an argument respectfully. Bring another legal perspective.
I want this page to become a safe space where people can learn and help one another.
Have empathy. Be kind to each other. We learn every day even I am still learning.
And remember: education is not measured only by degrees. A person can hold several certificates and still lack wisdom, awareness or basic respect for others.
Education comes in many forms.
So, for those coming here with negative energy, looking for someone to smear, insult or verbally attack: Facebook is big enough for everybody.
Simply scroll past and find a page that accommodates that behaviour.
But if you bring toxicity here, I will delete it and block you.
There are other platforms where that behaviour is welcomed.
Here, we learn. We question. We advocate. We respect one another — and we use the law to understand our rights.
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