07/14/2026
Your trust and will spell out who gets what. They won't tell your family where you keep the safe deposit box key, the password to your photo library, or why you split things the way you did.
That's what a letter of instruction is for. California law doesn't treat it as a legal document, so no court reviews it and no relative can contest it. But it's often the page your family reads first and holds onto longest, especially in the early days after a loss when they're grieving and just need clear direction.
Our latest post walks through what to include: a personal message, account and digital asset details, and where to find the papers and keepsakes people always end up searching for later.
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