Mark Flowers, CFP CDFA I Second Saturday San Mateo County

10/12/2026

Navigating the financial aspects of a divorce can feel overwhelming, but understanding the rules around alimony (spousal support) makes all the difference. 💡

In California, alimony is non-taxable at both the federal and state levels under current tax laws—meaning the recipient doesn't report it as income, and the payer cannot deduct it. Knowing these details helps ensure a simpler, cleaner financial break during major life transitions.

Have questions about spousal support or California tax laws? We’re here to help guide you through every step.

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10/09/2026

High net worth doesn’t require high conflict. 🕊️✨

Navigating a complex divorce or major financial transition doesn't have to mean endless courtroom battles. You can protect your assets, preserve your privacy, and secure your financial future—all while choosing peace.

Here are 3 ways to keep conflict low and clarity high:

1️⃣ Use mediation to keep records private: Avoid public courtroom filings by resolving financial terms in a confidential setting.
2️⃣ Leverage a CDFA® as a financial expert: Work with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® to gain objective, data-backed insights on asset division and long-term impact.
3️⃣ Prioritize your future and plan for it: Shift the focus away from past disputes and center your decisions on your long-term goals and stability.

Smart financial strategies allow you to move forward with confidence and peace of mind. Save this post or send a DM to start planning your next steps! 💼🔒

10/07/2026

Divorce raises three kinds of questions at once: legal, financial, and emotional.

Second Saturday was built to answer all three in one morning, with a family law attorney, a mental health professional, and me, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.

This month: Saturday, October 10th, 9:00 AM–12:00 PM Pacific, on Zoom. $20 to reserve your seat.

Register now: https://events.leadconnectorhq.com/events/event-details/6aa1b04b22d24beb4b1b05fd

10/05/2026

When going through a major life transition, clarity is your best asset. 💡✨

Navigating change—whether starting fresh or restructuring your future—requires active steps to protect your financial independence and peace of mind.

Here are 3 essential steps to keep in mind:

1️⃣ Transition from joint to individual credit: Ensure your personal credit score is independent, strong, and secure.
2️⃣ Update your long-term care insurance policy: Adjust coverage to reflect your current needs and future goals.
3️⃣ Re-evaluate your risk tolerance for investing: Ensure your portfolio aligns with your new financial realities and timeline.

Taking charge of your financial plan today sets you up for long-term security tomorrow. Drop a comment below or send a message if you need guidance through your next steps! 📈💼

10/02/2026

Heading into mediation can feel overwhelming, but preparation is key to reaching a peaceful, fair outcome. 🤝✨

Whether you’re navigating family matters, business disputes, or legal negotiations, being organized and mentally prepared helps you stay focused on solutions rather than stress.

Here are a few quick tips to get ready:
1️⃣ Define Your Priorities: Know your non-negotiables and where you are willing to compromise.
2️⃣ Gather Your Documents: Have all relevant paperwork, financials, or notes organized and accessible.
3️⃣ Focus on the Future: Keep your goals centered on resolution, not past grievances.
4️⃣ Keep an Open Mind: Listening is just as powerful as speaking during negotiations.

Preparation brings confidence to the table. Save this post for your next step forward! 💻📝

09/30/2026

When a marriage ends later in life, the financial stakes can be especially high.

And some decisions that seem reasonable in the moment can have very different consequences years down the road.

In my latest blog, I break down 5 costly financial mistakes to watch for during divorce, including decisions involving:

🏠 The family home
💰 How different assets are valued
📈 Retirement benefits
📝 Your post-divorce budget
💼 Changes to your income or career

The goal isn’t simply to divide what you have today. It’s to understand how those decisions could affect your financial life after the divorce is final.

🔗 Read the full blog at the link in bio or at:
https://markflowers.co/2026/08/divorce-and-money-the-mistakes-you-cant-afford-to-make/.

09/28/2026

Navigating child support during a divorce can feel overwhelming, but understanding the fundamentals is key to protecting your family's future. 💡

Here are the basic components that go into determining child support:
• Income of Both Parents: Support calculations typically evaluate both parties' gross monthly earnings and earning potential.
• Time-Sharing Split: The amount of time children spend with each parent directly impacts final support calculations.
• Essential Expenses: Additional healthcare, daycare, education, and special needs costs are mapped out to ensure full coverage.

Clear planning brings peace of mind during complex transitions. DM us or link in bio to learn how proper financial preparation protects your children and your long-term stability. 📲

09/25/2026

Securing your financial future means planning for long-term confidence and peace of mind. 🌿

Here are 3 essential steps to prioritize longevity planning and ensure a secure retirement:
1️⃣ Calculate health care costs directly into your budget to avoid unexpected expenses.
2️⃣ Verify Social Security "10-Year Rule" eligibility to maximize your potential benefits.
3️⃣ Ensure QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders) are drafted during finalization to protect retirement asset divisions.

Taking proactive steps today ensures lasting security for your future. Send a message to start building a clear retirement strategy. 📲

09/23/2026

Divorce is more than a financial transition. It’s a human one.

That’s one reason I’m proud to be involved with CP Cal, an organization focused on helping families navigate conflict through alternative dispute resolution.

This work matters to me because the way people move through divorce can have an impact far beyond the financial decisions being made. Approaching the process with respect, communication, and a focus on constructive solutions can help families build a healthier path forward.

For me, supporting this work is another way to contribute to the families and communities I serve. Learn more about my partnership with CP Cal:
https://cpcal.com/what-is-collaborative-practice/collaborative-divorce/

09/21/2026

Divorce is a transition, not just an end. 🌿

Healing emotional and practical paths takes intention, support, and clarity. Join Mark Flowers for Second Saturdays: Healing After Split as we explore the vital role therapy plays in navigating a breakup and moving forward with renewed confidence.

Find guidance, rebuild your momentum, and discover tools for your next chapter.

🔗 Visit www.markflowers.co/ or read the full guide at secondsaturdaysanmateocounty.com/therapy-and-healing to learn more.

Are you looking for a financial advisor to help you through your divorce? Mark Flowers takes a compassionate and proven approach.