Aloha Divorce

07/17/2026

The Wall Street Journal recently featured an article about a growing trend in prenuptial agreements: "leaving the workforce" clauses.

These provisions are designed to protect a spouse who chooses to step away from their career to raise children or support the family—recognizing that such decisions often entail significant financial sacrifices, including lost income, retirement savings, and future earning potential.

At Aloha Divorce, we've always believed that the best prenups aren't just about protecting assets. They're about creating clarity, fairness, and thoughtful conversations before marriage.

A prenup should reflect the life you're planning to build together, not just the assets you bring into it.

It's encouraging to see this shift toward viewing prenuptial agreements as tools for partnership rather than distrust.

What are your thoughts? Should couples discuss these possibilities before they get married?

Stay-at-home parents face a nightmare scenario in divorce. More are trying to avoid it.

07/17/2026

🌺 Aloha vibes, ocean views, and some of my favorite people in family law!

Had such a great time at the San Diego Family Law Bar Association’s annual Bali Hai happy hour. It was wonderful catching up with colleagues, making new connections, and enjoying an evening with a community that’s dedicated to helping families through life’s transitions.

Mahalo to Safe& Sound Visitation Monitoring for hosting such a fun event! 🍹

Networking LegalCommunity AlohaSpirit

07/01/2026

Don’t be a Kook... get a prenup. 😉

The best marriages start with honest conversations—not assumptions.

A prenuptial agreement isn’t about expecting your marriage to fail. It’s about creating clarity, protecting each other, and building a strong foundation before you say “I do.”

Congratulations to the happy couple... and thanks to the Cardiff Kook for the reminder! 💍

MarriageGoals

06/16/2026

🏡 Keeping the family home after divorce?

Here's an important lesson from a recent California appellate case:

Just because one spouse agrees to take responsibility for the mortgage does not mean the other spouse is automatically removed from the loan.

If removing a spouse from a mortgage is part of the agreement, the settlement should clearly address:
✔ Refinancing requirements
✔ Timing and deadlines
✔ What happens if refinancing isn't possible

Thoughtful settlement drafting helps prevent future disputes and creates greater certainty for both parties.

A recent California divorce case highlights why settlement agreements should clearly address mortgage refinancing and removal from joint debt obligations.

03/18/2026

Client love like this 🤍

At Aloha Divorce, we believe divorce doesn’t have to be complicated or overwhelming. Our process is designed to be smooth, convenient, and fully online—so you can move forward with ease.

SanDiegoLawyer

03/12/2026

Celebrating St. Patrick’s Day with the Irish American Bar Association of San Diego 🍀

Great to see so many members of the local legal community and spend the evening connecting with colleagues.

Pictured with Judge Dwayne Moring and one very convincing leprechaun. ☘️

03/10/2026

Aloha Divorce is excited to be a Hole Sponsor at this year’s San Diego Injury Network & EvenUp St. Patrick’s Day Golf Tournament! 🍀⛳️

📍 The Heights Golf Club – Rancho Bernardo
📅 Monday, March 16, 2026

If you’re attending the tournament, come find us at Hole #14 and say hello!

Looking forward to a great day supporting the local legal and medical community.

02/24/2026

Thinking about filing for divorce?

If your goal is an amicable resolution — preparation matters even more.

Before filing, consider:

• Gather financial documents (bank, retirement, debts)
• Download the last 2–3 years of tax returns
• Outline your monthly living expenses
• Think through your ideal co-parenting schedule
• Identify what truly matters most to you

When both parties are informed and organized, mediation and collaborative divorce become far more productive.

Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle.
With the right preparation, it can be a structured transition into your next chapter — especially when children are involved.

If you’re in the early stages and want to approach this thoughtfully, I’m here to help. 🤍

— Cassandra Koenig, Esq.
Aloha Divorce

AmicableDivorce

02/02/2026

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We’re grateful when clients take the time to share their experience with Aloha Divorce. Providing thoughtful, professional, and timely guidance—especially for prenuptial agreements—is at the heart of what we do.

Thank you for the trust and kind words. 🤍
Past results do not guarantee future outcomes.

01/30/2026

✨ Now Offering Complimentary Divorce Coaching ✨

At Aloha Divorce, we believe divorce support should extend beyond the legal process.

We’re pleased to introduce Beth Slate, Certified Divorce Coach & Mediator with Insight Divorce Solutions, as part of the Aloha Divorce extended support team.

All Aloha Divorce divorce clients now receive complimentary access to divorce coaching, fully paid for by our firm. This program includes support with:

• Emotional resilience and mindset
• Co-parenting and high-conflict strategies
• Divorce decision-making clarity
• Financial and life transitions
• Weekly live group coaching and community support

Participation is optional and designed to provide meaningful, non-legal support during a challenging life transition.

📩 Clients will receive access details directly.