Thresholds - Divorce Coaching & Mediation

09/12/2026

Just a reminder: I offer free divorce coaching for women who are leaving their MAGA husbands. If that’s you, let’s talk.

09/10/2026

In this conversation, we said all of the quiet parts out loud.

I sat down with Dr. Lisha Antiqua on More Than S*x and Secrets and talked about coming out as a le***an later in life, walking away from my marriage, and the coaching work I do now helping other women do the same thing without blowing their lives up in the process.

We also got into something most of us are taught to keep out of "polite" conversation — surviving early childhood sexual assault, and how much of my life started making sense once I understood that part of my story.

Fair warning: we talk about CSA directly, so if that's a hard one for you, take care of yourself, or catch this one on a day that isn't today.

If you've ever wondered how a person dismantles and rebuilds an entire life in their late 40s, this is basically the director's commentary.

Podcast Episode · More Than S*x and Secrets · August 30 · 45m

08/28/2026

Exciting news! But first it's storytime . . .

Last week I had a great call with a small group of folks who were curious about how I had grown my mediation, divorce coaching, and prenup practice over the last year.

Some were family lawyers looking to transition to mediation and/or divorce coaching. Some were coaches and mediators looking to build more growth and stability in their practice.

Here's the short version of what I told them — a huge part of it comes down to the American Bar Association Dispute Resolution Section's Practice Incubator program. Over the past year, this program gave me resources, insight, accountability, structure, and an incredible network of some of the best mediators in the country. And this year, I get to give back as a cohort facilitator, alongside the incredible John Libby and supported by the incomparable Susan Guthrie.

Why am I telling you this? Well, the application period for this year's Practice Incubator is officially open!

But the deadline is tight. You must get your application in by September 14th!

To learn more and get started, head to https://practiceincubator.com/

Know someone thinking about leaving firm life for mediation? Or a mediator ready to grow past feast-or-famine months? Tag them below, or share this post so it reaches them. (I'm sure you won't be surprised to learn that I want this year's cohorts to be as diverse and amazing as possible.)

If you have questions, please reach out. I'm happy to schedule a short call to discuss the program!

08/25/2026

Another clip from my fantastic late-in-life le***an conversation with Jennifer Summers. This one is a bit of a personal storytime about the first time I tried to come out to my husband, but didn’t quite make it.

podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sip-with-summers/id1759225961?i=1000784329724

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08/24/2026

I spent decades waiting for someone to come tell me that I was a le***an so that I could know for sure. But straight women don’t spend their time wondering.

If you are waking up to this realization and wondering how to tell your husband or longtime boyfriend, you aren’t alone. There are so many people here waiting to support you. And if you are ready to give yourself one-on-one support, all you have to do is reach out.

Also, go check out his fantastic podcast with Jennifer Summers. Link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sip-with-summers/id1759225961?i=1000784329724

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08/23/2026

I had the most amazing conversation with Jennifer Summers on her podcast Sip With Summers and I’m so excited to share it with you.

Go listen to the whole thing wherever you do podcasts or watch it with our pretty faces on YouTube. Link below and clips coming soon.

And as always, if what I have to say, resonates with where you are in your life right now, reach out. We all deserve support.

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sip-with-summers/id1759225961?i=1000784329724

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07/03/2026

Tomorrow is Independence Day, and it’s also my first wedding anniversary with my beautiful wife, Laura. That isn't by accident. We chose the date last year as an act of joy, of defiance, and of freedom.

So, I’ve been thinking about freedom, but not the kind capitalism and democracy try to provide. I've been pondering the deeply personal, sometimes terrifying freedom that I get to witness and support in my work as a coach and mediator. The freedom of claiming the truth about who you are. The freedom to build a life that actually fits. The freedom to love openly and deeply.

A year ago tomorrow, my wife and I formalized a love that is more deep and true than either of our younger selves could have dared to dream of. We did so with joy and delight, surrounded by people we love. But it was our younger selves and their brave choices to step into hard conversations that gave us the freedom to find that path.

This brings me to the podcast conversation I had with Gwenm Carsley of the Skin and Soul Podcast, which was released last month. We dive into so much of that journey. We talk about coming out later in life, divorce, identity, grief, love, and what it means to choose authenticity even when the path is uncertain.

While you are going about your weekend, I hope you'll listen. If you are reading this, I imagine you are standing at a threshold of your own—whether it’s about your sexuality, your relationships, your purpose, or simply the life you’ve built. If you are, and if it resonates, I’d love to hear what stays with you.

Watch on Youtube:
https://youtu.be/lnHoWQe1XYE?si=UWmSTXvo4FW65Oqf

Listen on Apple Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coming-out-later-in-life-when-stability-becomes-a-prison/id1819567622?i=1000773449307

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06/25/2026

Late in life le***ans have often spent decades making their needs small. But if your relationship can’t support you having needs, then it is not supportive.

If you are navigating this transition, support is available. Schedule a free consultation at the link in my bio.

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04/17/2026

Most people know mediation is confidential, but there’s something else just as important:

It’s not public.

Divorce filings, custody disputes, court hearings—those can become part of the public record. They can be accessed, shared, or even picked up in ways you never intended.

For couples in the public eye, that can make the difference between a difficult year and an impossible one.

Mediation is different.

Your conversations stay private. Your story doesn’t become something the world gets to read. In your deeply personal transition, that really matters.

If you’re standing at a threshold and trying to decide what comes next, you deserve options that protect your dignity and your bank account.

It all starts with a free, confidential conversation about options.