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06/18/2026

A recent study is making people stop and think — nearly half of divorced Americans say it derailed their retirement plans.

Divorce is one of the biggest financial events a person can go through. Couples spend decades building savings together, and when a marriage ends, those assets get divided. Add in fewer working years to rebuild (especially for those divorcing after 50), and the financial impact can be significant.

The good news? With the right legal and financial guidance, people can navigate divorce in a way that protects their future. Knowing what you're entitled to, understanding how retirement accounts are divided, and planning ahead can make all the difference.

If you're navigating a divorce and want to understand your rights, we're here to help.

https://finance.yahoo.com/economy/policy/articles/49-divorced-americans-derailed-retirement-140713548.html

Divorce after 50, often called gray divorce, has moved from a cultural curiosity to a measurable retirement risk. In these cases, shared assets are split in half, joint claiming strategies dissolve, and the runway to rebuild before retirement shrinks. With this in mind, new survey data quantifies so...

06/17/2026

Divorce does not always mean one spouse moves out right away.
For many California couples, staying in the same home during divorce can help with finances, children’s routines, and short-term stability.

But it only works when there are clear expectations. https://www.greengiraffelegal.com/resources/articles/living-together-during-divorce/

Written agreements, communication rules, and healthy boundaries can make a same-house separation more manageable while the divorce process moves forward.

Green Giraffe Legal Services helps families create practical documents and agreements that support a smoother transition.
Need help putting the details in writing? Contact us today.

06/12/2026

If you're divorced or going through a divorce, this is for you: stop shaming yourself and stop apologizing. Half the country is divorced — you have nothing to be ashamed of. Don't apologize for your opinions, don't overwork yourself, and don't dwell on the "should haves." Forgive yourself. Appreciate your people. Have fun NOW — not someday.
Read more 👇
https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/stop-shaming-yourself-and-stop-apologizing-you-deserve-better/

Stop shaming yourself! Stop apologizing! Stop dwelling on the past! This and much more advice for those who want to be happy!

06/10/2026

06/03/2026

Going through a second divorce? It may be simpler than you think. You already know the process, you're more emotionally prepared, and this time you know exactly what kind of help you need — which often means less attorney involvement and lower costs.

Read the full article to learn more. 👇
https://www.greengiraffelegal.com/resources/articles/3-ways-second-divorce-easier/

If you cannot afford to hire a full-scope attorney or feel that it’s not a necessary expense the second time around, you may be looking for a flat fee divorce option.

06/02/2026

Did you know that the bond between a human and their dog is backed by science? 🐾 A new Psychology Today article explores how becoming a "dog parent" can support healing after a gray divorce. The research shows dog owners report more satisfaction and support from their pets than from almost any other relationship in their lives. And when you interact with a dog, both of you release oxytocin — the love hormone. Four paws, a wagging tail, and unconditional companionship might just be what the doctor ordered. 🐕❤️
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/home-will-never-be-the-same-again/202605/being-a-dog-parent-can-boost-happiness-after-gray

Can becoming a "dog parent" help heal the losses of gray divorce? Learn what science reveals about dogs, love, happiness, and healing loneliness.

05/27/2026

"Thinking about an uncontested divorce in California?"
Even when both spouses agree, the process still follows strict legal timelines, including California’s mandatory 6-month waiting period. In most cases, a realistic uncontested divorce timeline is about 6 to 9 months, depending on court processing, paperwork accuracy and cooperation between spouses.

The good news: staying organized, completing financial disclosures correctly and working through settlement terms early can help avoid unnecessary delays.

This week we look at what affects the timeline and how to move through the process efficiently… https://www.greengiraffelegal.com/resources/articles/how-long-uncontested-divorce-takes/

05/25/2026

Thinking about keeping the house in a gray divorce? Think twice -- at 60, you have limited time to rebuild your savings. Buying out your spouse could drain your retirement funds — and you can't live on home equity. Sometimes selling, downsizing, and securing your future is the smarter move. Protect your retirement first! 💰
https://finance.yahoo.com/markets/articles/shes-60-divorcing-30-years-113000638.html

Divorce at 60 can affect your finances in major ways. If you're thinking about buying your ex out of a shared home, you'll need to make sure you'll still have plenty of retirement money left over.

05/24/2026

Women are now the primary breadwinners in 16% of marriages — meaning more women lose assets in divorce. Important to be aware when dividing retirement accounts, to use a direct transfer (not a rollover) to avoid a huge tax bill, and don't forget to update your beneficiary designations! Getting the paperwork right makes all the difference.
https://www.fa-mag.com/news/helping-female-breadwinners-minimize-losses-in-divorce-87010.html

05/20/2026

Psychologist explains why celebrating divorce might be the healthiest thing you can do

Divorce parties are having a MOMENT — and psychologists say it's actually one of the healthiest things you can do! 🎉 Instead of viewing divorce as a failure, women are reframing it as a rite of passage, celebrating survival, friendship, and fresh starts.
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/articles/psychologist-explains-why-celebrating-divorce-035706402.html

Move over hen parties, divorce celebrations are officially having their moment and according to new data, women are embracing them in record numbers. See details.