10/05/2026
💚 Monday Motivation 💚
Last week, I got stung by a wasp while filling my birdfeeders.
It is amazing how much pain one tiny creature can cause. One little sting and my arm swelled up. It ached for days. First it was red and burning hot, then came the itching. All of that from one tiny little POP!
And as I was nursing my poor arm, I started thinking… isn’t that how our words can be?
One little comment.
One sarcastic remark.
One impatient response.
One sentence spoken without thinking.
It may seem small to the person saying it, but it can leave a sting that lasts much longer for the person receiving it.
And I’ll admit, this one hits close to home for me. I am a talker. 😂 Sometimes my mouth gets several steps ahead of my brain. I can say something and only afterward think, Well… maybe that didn’t come out exactly like I meant it.
But intentions don’t always erase impact.
“The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” — Proverbs 12:18
Professionally, our words matter. In real estate, emotions can already be high. Buyers are nervous. Sellers are stressed. Agents are juggling a hundred things. One careless email, text, or comment can damage a relationship we’ve spent months or even years building. Sometimes wisdom looks like typing the response…and waiting a few minutes before hitting send.
Personally, the people we love the most are often the ones who get the least-filtered version of us. We can be patient with a stranger and then snap at our spouse, children, friends, or coworkers. Familiarity shouldn’t give us permission to be careless with someone’s heart.
And spiritually, Scripture repeatedly reminds us that our words have power. We can use them to encourage, comfort, correct with love, and build others up—or we can leave a sting.
Now, after my wasp incident, Allen decided to protect the woman he loves by literally torching those wasps. 🔥😂 And I’m pretty sure he enjoyed taking them out just a little too much.
Unfortunately, that is NOT the biblical solution when people sting us. 😂
We don’t get to torch people who hurt us. We are called to respond differently—with grace, wisdom, forgiveness, and self-control.
So this week, I’m reminding myself to slow down long enough to ask:
Does this need to be said?
Does it need to be said this way?
And will my words leave healing…or a sting?
Because sometimes the smallest words can leave the biggest mark.
Choose them wisely. 💚