10/12/2026
I’m going to say what many won’t, and that’s okay. I know I’m not for everyone.
We didn’t know any better when we got married either. We’ve had our own lessons and experiences, and I simply want to help other couples grow.
It’s not about having a perfect marriage. It’s about being willing to work on the one you have. 💍
We spend so much time planning the wedding day; the dress, the venue, the flowers, the photos, and every little detail. But how much time do we spend preparing for the marriage itself?
As a wedding officiant who has had the privilege of witnessing couples begin their journeys together, and as someone who is married and has experienced the reality of “for better or for worse,” I want to share some things worth thinking about.
Marriage is beautiful, but it also requires intentional effort. Communication, patience, forgiveness, understanding, and commitment are just a few of the things we need to keep working on, not only when things get difficult, but even when everything seems fine.
This isn't about having a perfect marriage or pretending to have everything figured out. It's about recognizing that we can always grow, learn, and become better partners to one another.
❤️ Whether you're engaged, newly married, or have been married for decades, I hope these tips encourage you to invest in your marriage.
Don't wait until something is broken to start working on it. The best time to nurture your marriage is now.
What's one thing you believe every couple should consistently work on in their marriage? Share in the comments!
