10/07/2026
Your parents are going to bring up selling the house at some point this fall, or they are going to carefully not bring it up, which is its own kind of conversation.
Downsizing gets written about as a financial decision and it almost never is. It is a decision about stairs, about a garden that got bigger every year without changing size, about whether the guest room still needs to exist, and about leaving a place where a lot happened.
The families who handle this well are not the ones who decide fastest. They are the ones who start the conversation a year before anyone has to, so nobody is making a housing decision inside a crisis.
If you are the adult child in this, your job is not to have the answer. It is to make it a subject that can be discussed without it meaning something has been decided.
Swipe through for how the timeline actually works, and the question that opens the conversation without ending it.
DM me the word DOWNSIZE if you want to talk through the timing for your family. No pressure and no listing conversation attached to it.