Stofberg Attorneys Worcester

07/10/2026

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29/09/2026

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19/07/2026

Children may occasionally pass practical information between parents. Concern arises when this becomes an established pattern in which the child is expected to carry demands, accusations, grievances or adult interpretations of past events to the targeted parent.

The child may be told to ask why the parent “did this to us,” demand explanations about the separation, finances or court proceedings, repeat hostile remarks, or present a revised version of family history they do not have the knowledge or developmental capacity to evaluate. What appears to be an independently raised concern may contain adult language, conclusions and emotional meanings supplied by the coercively controlling parent.

Parent-child boundaries are gradually eroded. Instead of being free to relate to the targeted parent through affection, ordinary conversation and shared experience, the child’s contact becomes organised around confrontation, interrogation and the defence of one parent against the other.

This can involve triangulation, emotional parentification and role reversal. The child may begin to feel responsible for obtaining answers, enforcing the aligned parent’s position, correcting the targeted parent or delivering hostility that the adult has chosen not to communicate directly.

The child may also be expected to report back about what the targeted parent said, how they responded and whether they became upset, defensive or frustrated. They are no longer simply spending time with someone they love. They are monitoring the interaction while anticipating how each detail will later be received and interpreted.

The psychological burden can be considerable. The child may experience anxiety before contact, guilt afterwards and confusion about whether the words they are using, or the position they are defending, genuinely belong to them. They may fear disappointing the aligned parent if they do not deliver the message forcefully enough, while also feeling distress about the emotional harm caused to the targeted parent.

Over time, the child can become a conduit for adult conflict and proxy abuse without recognising how they have been recruited into it. Their relationship with the targeted parent is progressively displaced by an adult role they were never emotionally or developmentally equipped to carry.

13/06/2026

Ek bied die volgende diens aan kinders en ouers: Ondersteuning wanneer ouers skei en die aanpassing daarna. Baie trauma en ongelukkigheid kan voorkom word, as ouers die kinders op die regte wyse ondersteun en hanteer. Vir afsprake en verdere inligting, kontak 0233425028

20/12/2024

Ons kantoor sluit vandag en heropen op 6 Januarie 2025. Ons wens u n vredevolle Kerstyd toe en indien u weggaan, reis veilig en rus lekker uit. Dankie vir u ondersteuning.

14/04/2024

03/03/2024

Einde 2023 is n uitspraak in die Hooggeregshof gegee dat jy kan aanspraak maak op bates al is jy buite gemeenskap van goedere getroud, met uitsluiting van die aanwasbedeling. As jy meer hieroor wil weet, kontak ons kantoor vir n afspraak

09/11/2023

Daar is baie onlangs wysigings in die Kinderwet aangebring.Daar kan nou by die kinderhof aansoeke gebring word om 'n voog/voogde aan te wys vir minderjarige kinders. Dit kon altyd net in die Ho"e Hof gedoen word. Vir verdere inligting of afsprake kan u ons kantoor kontak by 0233425028

01/12/2022

Die jaar is byna op sy einde en Stofberg Prokureurs het reeds beplan vir 2023. Ons gaan werkswinkels begin voortsit waarin ons mense wil help en ondersteun wie deur 'n egskeiding gaan. Die proses van egskeiding sal bespreek word, asook aspekte met betrekking tot minderjarige kinders. Die effek van egskeiding sal bespreek word, asook hoe jy dit so effektief moontlik kan hanteer. Die eerste werkswinkel sal op 11 Februarie 2023 plaasvind. Die koste beloop R1000. Bespreek solank hou plek by 0233425028, want ons wil die groepe klein hou sodat daar aandag aan elke persoon gegee kan word.

09/09/2022