Ayesha Karim Attorneys

Ayesha Karim Attorneys Law firm specializing in various aspects of Family Law. Drafting of Wills, Administration

31/05/2026

In South African law, changing a child's surname does not remove a parent's parental rights and responsibilities.

A child's surname and parental rights are two separate legal issues.

A parent who has parental rights and responsibilities under the Children's Act 38 of 2005 retains those rights unless they are specifically limited, suspended, or terminated by a court order. Simply changing the child's surname does not affect:

-Care and contact rights
-Guardianship rights

The right to be consulted on major decisions
Maintenance obligations
The right to seek contact through the courts

For example:

If a mother remarries and the child's surname is changed to that of the stepfather, the biological father does not automatically lose his parental rights.

Likewise, a father who has not had contact with a child for years does not lose his parental rights merely because the child's surname is changed.
Consent for a surname change

Where both parents are co-holders of guardianship rights, the consent of both parents is generally required to change a minor child's surname. If consent is withheld, an application can be made to court to authorize the change if it is in the child's best interests.

When parental rights can be lost?

Parental rights are usually only removed by:
A High Court order;
A Children's Court order;
An adoption order (where the biological parent's rights are generally terminated upon adoption).

29/05/2026

Do I still have to pay maintenance if we have 50/50 shared care and contact?

The short answer: Yes, possibly.

Many parents believe that equal time with the children automatically means no maintenance is payable. That is not how South African law works.
Maintenance is determined by:
✔️ The child's reasonable needs;
✔️ Each parent's financial means;
✔️ Each parent's ability to contribute.

Even where care and contact are shared equally, one parent may still be required to contribute more financially if there is a significant difference in income or resources.

The law does not focus on what is "fair" between the parents. It focuses on what is in the best interests of the child.

Every case is different, and a 50/50 parenting arrangement does not automatically cancel a maintenance obligation.

A reminder to every seller: The attorney you choose matters.Not all conveyancers are the same, and the right legal team ...
21/04/2026

A reminder to every seller:

The attorney you choose matters.

Not all conveyancers are the same, and the right legal team can make or break a difficult transaction.




17/04/2026

Payment of outstanding Nafaqah upon Divorce.

Legal nuance

The courts are not saying:
“Enforce nafaqah as religious law.”

They are doing something more sophisticated:
They are recognising that the failure to fulfil a duty of support during the marriage can found a civil claim.

This may be framed as:
• A tacit agreement between spouses
• A debt arising from the marital relationship
• A claim grounded in fairness, dignity, and patrimonial loss

08/04/2026

What are your thoughts? Do you think the court was right in making such an order?

STOP. Before you sign that mandate 👀No — you are NOT required to use the agent’s attorney.Let’s be real for a second…If ...
01/04/2026

STOP. Before you sign that mandate 👀

No — you are NOT required to use the agent’s attorney.
Let’s be real for a second…

If someone is pushing a specific attorney, you have to ask: who are they really working for?

As the seller, YOU choose the conveyancer.
Not the agent. Not the buyer. YOU.

Because the person handling your transfer is controlling:
• your property
• your money
• your legal protection

And yet so many sellers give that power away without question.

Here’s the truth most people don’t say out loud:
There are referral relationships, quiet incentives, and blurred lines that don’t always serve the seller.

You deserve:
✔ Independent advice
✔ Full transparency
✔ Someone legally obligated to act in YOUR best interest

This is your asset. Your deal. Your decision.
Don’t be pressured. Don’t be misled. Don’t sign blindly.

LegalTruth PropertyAdvice

17/03/2026

🚨 BIG WIN FOR MUSLIM WOMEN IN SA

A talaq is NOT the end of your rights.
The Gauteng High Court has ruled that:

❗You can STILL claim maintenance
❗ You are STILL recognised as a “spouse” in law
❗ You can STILL go to court under Rule 43

💥 Even if a talaq was already issued.
The court shut down the idea of “first come, first served” — meaning a husband can’t rush a talaq to strip a woman of her legal protections.

⚖️ Bottom line:
Religious divorce ≠ loss of legal rights
Women and children MUST be protected under South African law.

Rule43

12/03/2026

Maintenance enquiries are essentially financial enquires. Therefore, all financial documents must be disclosed so that the court can make a determination.

Muslim Marriages and the consequences of Divorce in South Africa.
10/03/2026

Muslim Marriages and the consequences of Divorce in South Africa.

02/03/2026

Paying maintenance to your siblings.

In South African law, siblings can be held liable - but as a 'last resort'

Under the Maintenance Act 99 of 1998, the legal duty of support follows this order:
• Parents → Children
• Spouses → Each other
• In some cases → Grandparents

Only in exceptional circumstances, where someone is completely indigent and no closer family can provide, the court will consider siblings.

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