13/02/2026
A couple’s four-year romantic relationship saw them living together first in her mother’s house and then in his apartment. They then decided to buy a house together with the idea of making their relationship more permanent.
Unfortunately, that dream came to nought – their relationship ended a month after the property purchase, leaving only one of them to live in the house and to pay all the ongoing costs while they decided what to do next.
In due course they fell out over how to end the co-ownership and how to adjust their respective claims for past and future property costs.
Their dispute reached the High Court, which ordered firstly that the co-ownership be terminated. This was necessary, because no co-owner can be forced against their will to remain a co-owner where the relationship between the co-owners has deteriorated to such an extent that it can’t continue.
Then, using an old Roman law remedy still in use today (the “actio communi dividundo”) the Court dealt with both the division of the property, and the adjustment of the various financial claims between the parties. As is usually the case, these were complex and intertwined after years of cohabitation.
Importantly, the Court noted a modern move away from the traditional principle that the property should necessarily be sold by public auction to the highest bidder, towards a much more flexible approach based on the Court having a wide discretion to ensure a fair and practical outcome in each case.
Thus, having considered all the circumstances, wishes and claims of both parties, the Court ordered that the ex-partner living in the house has a first option (valid for 60 days) to buy the other’s half share at valuation. If he doesn’t, he must offer it for sale on the open market at a fair and reasonable market-related price. If there’s still been no sale after 6 months, the Sheriff of the High Court becomes a “receiver and liquidator” and has 4 months to auction the house. The bond, costs and parties’ related financial claims will be settled from the proceeds as directed by the Court.
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