Law Offices of David Bliven

10/18/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “What If My Spouse Cheated? Does Infidelity Matter in a NY Divorce?” *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“Cheating may destroy a marriage — but does it destroy someone’s rights in court?”
Many people assume that if their spouse cheated, the court will punish them financially or with custody. But New York doesn’t always work the way people think. I’m David Bliven, Bronx & Westchester Divorce Attorney. Let’s talk about how infidelity actually impacts a divorce. 1. New York Is a No-Fault Divorce State. You don’t need to “prove” bad behavior to end the marriage. “Irretrievable breakdown” is enough. So does cheating matter at all? 2. Infidelity Does NotAutomatically Affect: Asset division. Child support. Spousal support. Custody decisions. Judges don’t punish someone for moral failings. 3. But Infidelity Does Matter When Money Was Spent. If your spouse used marital money on an affair: Trips, Hotels, Gifts, Secret accounts, Rent or living expenses of another person, …this is called wasteful dissipation. A judge can force your spouse to repay you through the asset division. 4. Infidelity Matters When It Harms the Children. If the cheating: Exposed children to inappropriate situations, Created instability, or Involved dangerous people, then…judges do consider that in custody determinations. 5. Infidelity Matters If It Shows Poor Judgment. Even if the children weren’t directly harmed, bringing new partners around too soon can influence custody. 6. Infidelity Can Affect Negotiations Emotionally. Not legally — but emotionally. And emotion drives litigation more than law does. The Bottom Line: Cheating affects your divorce only when: Marital money was wasted, or The children were negatively impacted. If your spouse cheated and you’re unsure what financial or custody effects that may have, reach out to my office. I’ll help you understand your rights and your leverage.”

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Div...

10/18/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “What If My Spouse Cheated? Does Infidelity Matter in a NY Divorce?” BronxFamilyLaw *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“Cheating may destroy a marriage — but does it destroy someone’s rights in court?”
Many people assume that if their spouse cheated, the court will punish them financially or with custody. But New York doesn’t always work the way people think. I’m David Bliven, Bronx & Westchester Divorce Attorney. Let’s talk about how infidelity actually impacts a divorce. 1. New York Is a No-Fault Divorce State. You don’t need to “prove” bad behavior to end the marriage. “Irretrievable breakdown” is enough. So does cheating matter at all? 2. Infidelity Does NotAutomatically Affect: Asset division. Child support. Spousal support. Custody decisions. Judges don’t punish someone for moral failings. 3. But Infidelity Does Matter When Money Was Spent. If your spouse used marital money on an affair: Trips, Hotels, Gifts, Secret accounts, Rent or living expenses of another person, …this is called wasteful dissipation. A judge can force your spouse to repay you through the asset division. 4. Infidelity Matters When It Harms the Children. If the cheating: Exposed children to inappropriate situations, Created instability, or Involved dangerous people, then…judges do consider that in custody determinations. 5. Infidelity Matters If It Shows Poor Judgment. Even if the children weren’t directly harmed, bringing new partners around too soon can influence custody. 6. Infidelity Can Affect Negotiations Emotionally. Not legally — but emotionally. And emotion drives litigation more than law does. The Bottom Line: Cheating affects your divorce only when: Marital money was wasted, or The children were negatively impacted. If your spouse cheated and you’re unsure what financial or custody effects that may have, reach out to my office. I’ll help you understand your rights and your leverage.”

10/17/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “HALLE BERRY’S CUSTODY BATTLE: CAN A CHILD BE FORCED TO TESTIFY AGAINST A PARENT?” BronxFamilyLaw *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“Halle Berry'’ 13-year-old son may testify against his own mother in court. And this case raises one of the most controversial questions in family law:
Should children ever be placed in the middle of their parents'’custody battles?
I'’ David Bliven, Bronx & Westchester Divorce Attorney, and this story raises some extremely important legal issues. Oscar-winning actress Halle Berry is involved in a bitter custody dispute with her ex-husband, Olivier Martinez, over their 13-year-old son. Martinez has accused Berry of physically abusing their child. Berry strongly denies those allegations. Martinez obtained a temporary restraining order and temporary changes to their custody arrangement. And now, according to recent reports, a judge has permitted their son to testify on a limited issue involving the restraining-order request. But here’s what makes this case particularly interesting. Berry reportedly argues that her son has been coached and manipulated by his father.

10/16/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “Who Keeps the Country Club Membership?” *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“Yes—membership perks ARE considered.”
Country clubs, yacht clubs, and exclusive memberships have value. I negotiate access, buyouts, or replacements that protect your lifestyle. Contact me if your lifestyle assets matter.”

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10/16/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “Can Text Messages Be Used as Evidence in a New York Divorce?” *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“That angry text you're about to send your spouse? Imagine a judge reading it out loud in court.”
Because someday, a judge might see it.
Texts, emails and social-media communications can become evidence in New York divorce and custody litigation when they're relevant and properly admitted.
I've seen people seriously undermine themselves because they couldn't resist sending one angry message.
So here's a simple rule:
Before hitting SEND, ask yourself:
“Would I be comfortable having my attorney explain this message to the judge?”
If the answer is no—don't send it.
This is especially important in contested custody cases.
Threats, insults, statements about withholding the children, or repeated hostile communications can potentially become exhibits.
During litigation, your phone isn't just a communication device.
It can become a source of evidence.
Follow me for more New York divorce and custody strategies.
And if you're already dealing with damaging texts or communications, speak with an attorney before deciding how to respond.

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Div...

10/16/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “Who Keeps the Country Club Membership?” BronxFamilyLaw *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“Yes—membership perks ARE considered.”
“Country clubs, yacht clubs, and exclusive memberships have value. I negotiate access, buyouts, or replacements that protect your lifestyle. Contact me if your lifestyle assets matter.”

10/15/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “Can Text Messages Be Used as Evidence in a New York Divorce?” BronxFamilyLaw *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“That angry text you'’e about to send your spouse? Imagine a judge reading it out loud in court.”
Because someday, a judge might see it.
Texts, emails and social-media communications can become evidence in New York divorce and custody litigation when they'’e relevant and properly admitted.
I'’e seen people seriously undermine themselves because they couldn'’ resist sending one angry message.
So here'’ a simple rule:
Before hitting SEND, ask yourself:
“Would I be comfortable having my attorney explain this message to the judge?”
If the answer is no—don'’ send it.
This is especially important in contested custody cases.
Threats, insults, statements about withholding the children, or repeated hostile communications can potentially become exhibits.
During litigation, your phone isn'’ just a communication device.
It can become a source of evidence.
Follow me for more New York divorce and custody strategies.
And if you’re already dealing with damaging texts or communications, speak with an attorney before deciding how to respond.

10/09/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “What If Your Ex Moves Out of State with the Kids?” *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

"They can’t just pack up and leave—here’s the law." Most states require notice and court approval before relocating children. You can file to stop or modify custody. "Facing relocation issues? Let’s act fast."

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Div...

10/09/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “What If Your Ex Moves Out of State with the Kids?” BronxFamilyLaw *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

"They can’t just pack up and leave—here’s the law."”Most states require notice and court approval before relocating children. You can file to stop or modify custody. "Facing relocation issues? Let’s act fast.”

10/07/2026

David Bliven, Westchester Divorce & Family Law Attorney - Bronx Divorce & Family Law Attorney: “Stock Market Volatility & Divorce Settlements” *** If you appreciated the information in this video, please share, “like,” subscribe & follow. Thank you! ***

“Your portfolio’s value today is NOT its value tomorrow.”
“In high-value settlements, timing is everything. I structure settlements that factor in volatility, tax exposure, and market risk. Don’t settle at the wrong moment. Let’s strategize.”

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