05/26/2026
Can a child refuse visitation or summer time-sharing in Florida?
Usually, no. A child’s feelings may matter, but a child usually cannot simply cancel a court-ordered parenting plan.
When a child says, “I don’t want to go,” the parent’s first job is to listen carefully. The next job is to understand why.
A child who is bored, anxious, missing friends, or struggling with a summer schedule change is very different from a child reporting abuse, neglect, unsafe supervision, substance abuse, or fear.
In Florida parenting plan and time-sharing cases, the safer path is usually to:
Listen calmly and ask what is really bothering the child
Encourage the child’s relationship with the other parent when it is safe
Avoid telling the child, “You don’t have to go”
Document missed exchanges, texts, emails, and what was said
Seek legal advice quickly if there are safety concerns
Avoid taking matters into your own hands without guidance
Florida courts focus on the child’s best interests, but they also expect parents to follow court orders. A parent who repeatedly allows or encourages a child to refuse time-sharing without proper cause may face enforcement issues.
FAQ 1: Can a teenager decide where to live in Florida?
A teenager’s preference may matter in some situations, but it usually does not override a court-ordered parenting plan.
FAQ 2: What if my child cries before going to the other parent’s home?
Take it seriously, ask why, document repeated concerns, and encourage the relationship if the child is safe.
If your child is refusing summer time-sharing, or the other parent is using refusal to deny your court-ordered parenting time, The Law Office of Eric C. Cheshire, P.A. can help you understand your options under Florida law.
Call (561) 677-8090 or read the full blog to learn more: https://www.cheshirefamilylaw.com/blog/2026/may/can-a-child-refuse-summer-time-sharing-in-florid/
General information only. Not legal advice. No attorney-client relationship.
