05/15/2026
This week, Stacey had the incredible honor of attending and sponsoring the PLAN/NJ Celebration of Abilities, an evening dedicated to advocacy, dignity, connection, and the extraordinary individuals who make this community so special đź’™
One of the most meaningful parts of the night was meeting the people whose stories, compassion, and dedication truly embody what this work is all about:
We met Patrice Jetter, a self-proclaimed “really cool woman who happens to have disabilities,” alongside her husband Gary Wickham, who beautifully reminded everyone that “the law can stop them from lots of things, but it can’t stop them from loving each other.” We also had the pleasure of meeting Michael Loberfeld, a man absolutely overflowing with charisma, whose journey “from silent to service” left a lasting impression.
The evening also highlighted the heart behind PLAN/NJ’s mission through leaders like Nancy Dilliplane, Director of Trust Services, and Kerry Lee, Director of Operations, who shared how this work can leave you constantly flip-flopping between “heartbreaking to heart-bursting with joy.”
It was especially meaningful to celebrate Shirley Whitenack, the tiny but mighty elder and disability lawyer whose retirement and recognition were so deeply deserved. Seeing her honored alongside her colleagues at Schenck Price and Crystal Wedt Edwards Esq. of Porzio Price was truly special.
And to our wonderful table mates, Beth and Doug Eppinger, thank you for your warmth and for being such proud supporters of PLAN/NJ.
We are deeply grateful to support organizations like PLAN/NJ that nurture dignity, independence, advocacy, and quality of life for individuals with intellectual and physical disabilities and their families.
What an unforgettable evening đź’™
