04/22/2020
Tune Up Your Estate Plan When You Remarry
In the excitement of getting remarried, the need to redo your estate plan is often overlooked. You may have created your estate plan during a first marriage, after the death of a spouse or after a divorce and never updated it. Now a new person is entering your life and you likely want to give them certain legal authority or may need to deal with the complications of a blended family. The following are some steps you should consider:
1. Take an inventory. If you have not already done so as part of preparing a prenuptial agreement, you and your partner should take an inventory of your assets and debts and share it with the other person. Don't forget to include life insurance policies and retirement plans in your inventories.
2. Decide how you want to handle finances and how your estate plan may be changed by this decision. Are you going to combine (or not combine) assets after you are married? Will you jointly purchase a home or will one of you move into a home owned by the other? If so, will he or she contribute to the cost of the house? If one partner has significant debt, you may not want to combine finances or make joint purchases. Making these decisions up front will set your expectations.
3. Determine what you want to happen when you die. Where will each of your assets go when you die? This can be complicated if you have children from a prior marriage. There is no guarantee that if you leave your assets to your new spouse, he or she will leave anything to your children after you die. An estate planning attorney can walk you through the options to ensure your wishes are carried out.
4. Consult an elder law or estate planning attorney. Whether your estate is large or small, you should consult an attorney. You will need to update your will or trust and update or create other estate planning documents including a durable power of attorney and a health care directive.
5. Update your beneficiaries. You may want to change the beneficiaries on your life insurance policies, annuities, and/or retirement plans. You should consider any limitations that a divorce decree may impose on you before you make any changes.
6. Consider a prenuptial agreement. Although we enter into a marriage with the best expectations, divorces happen. A prenuptial agree may be an important planning tool, especially when one or both parties bring considerable assets to the marriage or there are children from a prior marriage.
Discussing these issues will help you get on the same page with your future spouse and will help you be better prepared to work with your estate planning attorney.