06/05/2026
My divorce was in litigation for about five years, with multiple attorneys involved and different phases of court throughout that time.
Even with effort to shield my kids, I could see how much they were still picking up from the tension and inconsistency that comes with ongoing conflict.
Later on, life changed in a different direction. I met my now husband, and when we decided to move to Tampa, my ex and I had to go through a relocation case to make that happen. We were eventually able to reach an agreement, and that moment also became a turning point in how we handled co-parenting.
We made a conscious decision to stop operating from a place of constant conflict and start focusing on what actually needed to work for the kids. That shift did not erase the past, and it was not always easy to maintain, but it did change the dynamic moving forward.
This is something I share because a lot of people feel like once things become stuck in litigation or high conflict, there is no way out of it. While it can take time and the right structure, change is still possible in how you move forward and how you co-parent.