06/17/2026
Not every offer is a good offer. I've seen sellers accept the highest number in a multiple offer situation and watch the deal fall apart three weeks later.
Here's what I look at before I tell a seller to accept.
Financing first. A pre-approval letter is only as strong as the lender behind it and the documentation supporting it. I want to know who the lender is, what the buyer's actual financial position looks like, and whether there are any flags in how the pre-approval was written. A cash offer with proof of funds changes the conversation entirely.
Contingencies second. Every contingency in a contract is an exit door for the buyer. Inspection, appraisal, sale of a current home β each one introduces a point where the deal can unravel. A slightly lower offer with cleaner terms is often the stronger position for a seller who needs certainty.
Timeline third. If the closing date doesn't align with the seller's situation β where they're going next, when they need to be out, what their purchase timeline looks like β the number at the top of the offer stops mattering.
The best offer is the one most likely to close cleanly, on terms that actually work for the seller. That's not always the highest number.
Have you ever been in a situation β buying or selling β where the obvious choice turned out not to be?What happened?