09/28/2024
🌿 "Do Not Make Another Stumble" – Walking in Love and Understanding 🌿
(Romans 14:13-23)
Hey friends, I’ve been reflecting on Romans 14:13-23, and it’s really been on my heart lately. I want to start by saying I’m not coming at this as someone who’s got it all figured out. I struggle with this just as much as anyone. But I find Paul’s words so encouraging because they remind us that we’re all on this journey together, and none of us are perfect. If you’ve ever felt unsure about how to handle differences in faith or worried about accidentally causing someone else to stumble, I hope this passage offers you some hope and guidance. 💞
1. Avoid Being a Stumbling Block
Paul starts by urging us not to pass judgment on each other, but instead "resolve never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother or sister." (Romans 14:13) This means that even though we might feel free to do certain things (like eating certain foods or drinking wine), we need to be careful not to unintentionally harm someone else’s faith. Our actions might be perfectly fine for us, but if they cause someone else to struggle, we might end up being a stumbling block without even realizing it. 🛑
Here's an example: If I have the freedom to drink wine and enjoy it responsibly, that's great. But if I’m around someone who feels it's wrong, or who might have a personal history with alcohol, my choice to drink might cause them distress or make them question their own faith. It’s not that the wine is inherently bad; it's about walking in love and considering how my actions could affect another person’s spiritual journey. I’ve had to learn this the hard way at times, realizing only after the fact that what I did might have made things harder for someone else.
2. Nothing is Unclean in Itself
Paul says, "I am convinced, being fully persuaded in the Lord Jesus, that nothing is unclean in itself." (Romans 14:14) This reminds us that we have freedom in Christ! However, if someone believes something is wrong, then for them, it is unclean. This is where we have to be extra careful. Just because we have the freedom to do something, we need to ask ourselves: Even if I can do this, should I if it might offend or harm my companion’s faith? If our actions distress someone else, we’re no longer walking in love. It's not about giving up our freedoms entirely; it's about using them responsibly and with a loving heart. ✝️
3. The Kingdom of God is Not About Rules
Paul emphasizes that the kingdom of God is not about food and drink, but about righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit. (Romans 14:17) This is such a freeing thought! Our faith isn’t meant to be weighed down by debates over every little practice. Instead, it's about how we love each other, pursue peace, and build each other up. 🕊 I’ve found that focusing on peace and joy makes it easier to set aside my own wants when it might be for the good of someone else.
4. Pursue Peace and Build Each Other Up
Paul encourages us to "pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding." (Romans 14:19) This means being sensitive to others' beliefs and making choices that encourage and strengthen their faith. If doing something might cause another person to struggle, then it's better to avoid that action out of love. It’s not about following a strict set of rules; it's about considering the impact of our actions. Sometimes, it's not obvious how our choices affect others, and that’s why Paul urges us to be careful. I’ve had moments when I didn’t realize I might have unintentionally caused harm until later, but each of those times was a lesson in how to love others better. 🌱
5. Hold Your Convictions, but Be Considerate
Paul reminds us to hold our convictions "as our own before God." (Romans 14:22) This means we don’t need to impose our beliefs on others, nor should we act in a way that goes against our conscience. But it’s also a gentle reminder to ask ourselves: Is it worth it? If what I’m doing might cause someone else to stumble or feel confused, maybe it’s better to set that freedom aside for their sake. This isn’t about feeling guilty over our choices; it’s about choosing to walk in love and being considerate of others' journeys. 🙏
So, How Do We Live This Out?
Be Mindful of Others: Even if we feel free in certain areas, let’s think about how our actions might affect those around us.
Ask, 'Should I?': Just because we can do something doesn’t always mean we should if it could unintentionally offend or harm someone else’s faith.
Walk in Love: Let love guide our choices, prioritizing others' spiritual well-being over our personal freedoms.
Focus on What Matters: Remember that God’s kingdom is about righteousness, peace, and joy—not debates over every little detail.
Encourage Unity: Let’s pursue peace and look for ways to build each other up in faith.
I know this isn’t always easy! I’ve definitely stumbled in this area myself, and sometimes I’ve been too focused on what I think is right without considering how it might impact others. But I’ve found so much hope in trying to walk this path of love and care for those around me. We’re all learning together, and that’s a hopeful thing! 💕
If you’d like to talk more about how we can support each other on our faith journeys and pursue peace, I encourage you to reach out to Douglas Hills Church of Christ at 📞 (502) 245-0573 or visit 🌐 douglashillschurch.org. Let's keep growing in love, understanding, and compassion, knowing that none of us have it all figured out—but we’re in this together! 🌻