Second Saturday San Mateo County

05/24/2026

Confidence is Built on Facts, Not Myths 💡

In the world of divorce, "parking lot advice" and internet myths can do real damage to your peace of mind—and your bank account.

One of the most rewarding parts of our Second Saturday Workshops is watching the weight lift off someone's shoulders as we debunk those myths and replace them with actionable steps. As this attendee shared, feeling confident in your "immediate next steps" changes the entire trajectory of the process.

But beyond the facts and figures, we’re building a community. You aren't just getting a lecture; you're finding a network of experts and peers who understand the road you're on.

You don't have to do this alone, and you don't have to guess. Join us to get the clarity and community support you deserve.

🗓️ Save the date for our next workshop on June 13th! 🔗 Register through the link in our bio or visit SecondSaturdaySanMateoCounty.com.

05/21/2026

05/21/2026

$100k ≠ $100k: Why Asset "Value" is Deceiving 🧐

In a divorce, on-paper equality doesn't always mean a fair split. If you divide assets without looking at the tax implications, you might find yourself with significantly less "real-world" money than your spouse.

As we say: Divide wisely, because not all assets are created equal. To ensure you’re getting a truly fair deal, you have to look deeper than the balance statement:

1️⃣ Cost Basis Matters: That stock or real estate portfolio could come with a massive capital gains tax bill when you sell.
2️⃣ Pre-Tax vs. After-Tax: A $500k Traditional 401(k) is eventually taxed as income, whereas a $500k Roth IRA or savings account is yours to keep.
3️⃣ Business Valuations: Closely held family businesses are complex. Without a proper valuation, you’re essentially guessing at the most important number in your settlement.

Don't settle for "equal" when it isn't "equitable." My job is to help you see the tax-adjusted truth so your future is actually secure.

🔗 Visit the link in my bio to learn how we protect your net worth.

05/20/2026

The "Hidden" Document That Protects Your Retirement 🛡️

If you’re dividing a 401(k), 403(b), or a pension in your divorce, listen closely: Your divorce decree is not enough.

To actually receive your share of those funds without getting hit by massive IRS taxes and penalties, you need a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order). Think of it as the legal bridge between your divorce settlement and the retirement plan administrator.

Why is this urgent? Waiting to file a QDRO is a huge risk. If your ex-spouse retires, passes away, or takes a loan against the plan before the document is in place, your share could be lost or tied up in years of litigation.

Don't leave your future income to chance. It’s not just "extra paperwork"—it’s the security you’ve spent years working for. Let’s get that bridge built correctly and immediately so your retirement stays on track.

🔗 Need help navigating retirement division? Click the link in my bio for more information.

05/18/2026

Trading a Stressful Past for a Peaceful Future ✨

Let’s be honest: Divorce doesn’t just change your relationship status; it often changes your daily reality. 🏡

Whether it’s moving to a smaller home, adjusting your monthly budget, or skipping that annual getaway, it is completely normal—and okay—to grieve the lifestyle you’re leaving behind. But I want you to remember one thing: A shift in your spending is not a failure; it is a transition.

Facing these changes with a solid plan allows you to:
-Process the loss without letting it define your worth.
-Take back the wheel of your financial life.
-Build a foundation that is sustainable, peaceful, and entirely yours.

True wealth isn’t measured by the size of your house or the labels in your closet—it’s the peace of mind that comes from being in total control of your future. You are trading a stressful past for a life of authenticity and independence.

We’re here to help you build that roadmap with confidence.

🔗 Find more resources and support in our bio.

05/17/2026

From Overwhelmed to Empowered ✨

There is no "instruction manual" for divorce, and the sheer volume of legal, financial, and emotional decisions can leave you feeling frozen. Our goal at the Second Saturday Divorce Workshop is simple: to replace that overwhelm with a sense of direction.

Receiving feedback like this reminds us why we do what we do. By bringing together a family law attorney, a financial expert, and a therapist, we provide a 360-degree view of your situation—helping you see the path forward when it feels most obscured.

If you’re feeling lost in the process, know that you don’t have to navigate it alone. Join us for our next session to get the thorough, compassionate guidance you deserve.

📅 Our next workshop is Saturday, June 13th. Secure your spot and start your next chapter with clarity.

🔗 Link in bio to register via SecondSaturdaySanMateoCounty.com