07/10/2025
Some observations on my last day as a 56 year old (part 1):
1. You will appreciate your love for others more as you age.
2. Six AM doesn’t seem early anymore.
3. Raising children is the most delightful thing a human can do.
4. Don’t wait to live your bucket list.
5. You will become a birder eventually.
6. The music WAS better in our day.
7. Things don’t matter… people do.
8. When your parents leave, you’ll think of them every day.
9. Videos of loved ones telling a story are invaluable.
10. People who matter don’t really care about your hair or clothes.
11. Raising chickens is fun.
12. Your siblings, if you’re lucky enough to have them, are lifelong friends.
13. There isn’t enough time to live everywhere you’d like to, so be sure to travel regularly,
14. Life is better when you help others just because you want to.
15. There’s no reason to be lonely on this planet, where dogs and cats live.
16. Take the time to connect with the people you work with.
17. The sound of your child laughing makes all of life‘s hardships worth it.
18. The weather does get more interesting as you get older.
19. You learn that you can celebrate New Year’s Eve earlier in the day.
20. A beer or glass of wine now and then can be a good thing but sharing non-alcoholic drinks on the porch with friends is always a good thing.
21. Days without cell phones are better than days with them.
22. It’s OK to rewatch your favorite movies, especially if you go to the movie theater to do so.
23. You will think of your favorite teachers your whole life.
24. Listen to music and sing out loud while you clean your house, because then it is fun.
25. if you see trash on the ground and it bothers you pick it up. If it doesn’t bug you, you might want to think about that.
26. Planting trees is good for your soul and the planet.
27. You won’t remember every birthday you have, so you should try to make all of the remaining ones memorable.
28. Giving gifts to others on your birthday Is one way to make them even more special. Sharing a special activity together is an even better way.
Part 2… to be continued…