05/31/2026
The WSJ has highlighted an issue that is common in estate planning in Fairfield County, CT, and Westchester County, NY, . No spouse and no children. Who is going to make decisions for you? Who is going to take care of you?
"More Americans Are Aging Alone. One Woman Told Us What It’s Like.
The 65-year-old is single with no children, and bound up in that choice over who should make financial decisions on her behalf are other big questions that are often intensified when aging alone. How to handle eldercare? Estate planning? Where will she live in her later years?
When Kant first realized the importance of naming a power of attorney, she didn’t know whom to choose at the time, and put off the decision. She only recently identified the right friend for the role after her illnesses made clear she needed to act.
A longtime college friend serves as her healthcare proxy, and Kant maintains a spreadsheet of friends to coordinate visits when she’s ill.
Still, she understands the boundaries of a chosen family. Her friends have their own households to manage; some have already died.
Kant also needs to draft a will and decide how to divide her assets.
Kant is among the millions of Americans learning to navigate aging alone. Roughly 10% of the more than 125 million adults ages 50 and older in the U.S.—or at least 12.5 million people—are solo agers who live alone and have neither a spouse nor a child."
Solo agers must navigate complex financial and medical decisions without a built-in safety net.