10/16/2026
What if you and your spouse have different ideas about who should raise your children?
Start by agreeing on the qualities you want in a guardian before comparing names:
• A relationship your children already know.
• Shared values about parenting and education.
• The time, health and willingness to take on the role.
• A home and location that fit your children's needs.
Then talk with the people you're considering. Someone you both love may not be ready for that responsibility.
In North Carolina, if neither parent survives, a guardian recommendation in a will guides the court, but the court can choose someone else when the child's best interests require it.
We can help you work through guardian choices as part of your estate plan.
Call The Walls Law Group at 919-647-9599 to schedule a free Discovery Call.
General information, not legal advice.