10/11/2024
“Yizkor.” This word pierces straight through the heart of any Jew connected to Judaism. It contains the pain of loss, the gaping hole left by those we loved, and the requirement that we actively remember the deceased.
A description of Yizkor is found in the Midrash Tanchuma (parshas Ha’azinu 1), where it cites Deuteronomy 21:8, “Atone for Your people, Israel, whom You have redeemed.” The Midrash instructs us that we must “remember the deceased on Yom Kippur by pledging charity on their behalf.” The Midrash assures us that the charity in the merit of our beloved departed souls will ascend to their merit with great speed.
While Yizkor centers on remembering parents, it also enables us to insert the names of others we loved. Following Yizkor for close relatives, there are paragraphs for victims of the Holocaust and other who died for expressing their Jewish identity.
One year ago, on Yom Kippur, we had no idea of the tragedy that would befall the Jewish people with the largest massacre of Jews since the Holocaust. Like others in our organization, many in my family were massacred in the Holocaust. But that was in Ukraine in the 1940s. Not in Israel in 2023. The marches calling for death of Jews are a familiar horror which we are stunned to see in America in 2023 and 2024.
This year, when we say Yizkor, we will include a prayer for the souls taken from this world by Hamas’ massacre, those who died defending Israel, and those who were taken hostage and executed by Hamas. In a world that has failed to express outrage, we must be outraged. And as Jews, we have a time and space to express not only our deep sadness and loss but to commit to building a better world in their names.
Each year, at Jewish Law Day, we remember those we lost in our community. It is an integral part of the event, and it is a beautiful way to honor those who enlivened our community. At last year’s Jewish Law Day we included those who lost their lives as a result of October 7. We have lost many more since that time. We pray that we do not continue to lose more this coming year.
May this year be a blessing to all of us, and may our good deeds on earth be a blessing to those we lost personally and to those who we all lost as Jews.
Warmly,
Gittel Hilibrand, Esq.
Secretary of the Board of the Louis D. Brandeis Law Society