03/15/2022
Help for your friends
Our firm probably has more work than any other in this region related to elder adults who are taken advantage of. Certainly it’s upsetting to discover such abuse. In every case, what mattered
and made the difference is the person who cared, who was willing to stand up to the bully – the exploiter – and come to our office to help their friends or family member.
Note that 45% of exploitation comes from family and acquaintances. It is important to figure out what the circumstances are, what the health issues are, whether there are medical and financial resources to care for and maintain the best situation for the elderly, and to listen and carry out the elderly person’s wishes to the extent they can express those wishes and figure out what is in their best interest. This means not jumping to conclusions but carefully figuring out what is going on, getting family members involved who can help, while understanding the family history and
dynamics. If you are concerned, you might want to review the U.S. Department of Justice website (https://www.justice.gov/elderjustice/red-flags-elder-abuse) for some of the red flags of elder abuse, including physical abuse, emotional/psychological abuse, financial exploitation, neglect and abandonment, and sexual abuse. Taking proper action is about caring enough to respond to those who are controlling a vulnerable person for their own purposes.