Family Law Attorney Elizabeth Tener

Family Law Attorney Elizabeth Tener Elizabeth Tener is a partner in Greenspoon Marder’s Marital & Family Law practice group.

When communication with your ex becomes difficult, every parenting decision can feel harder than it needs to be.Silence,...
10/02/2026

When communication with your ex becomes difficult, every parenting decision can feel harder than it needs to be.

Silence, delayed responses, constant arguments, or refusing to discuss important matters can create unnecessary stress — especially when children are involved.

If communication is breaking down:
• Keep messages focused on the children and the issue at hand
• Use clear, respectful, and factual language
• Avoid responding impulsively when emotions are high
• Keep records of important communication
• Follow any existing parenting plan or court order
• Get legal guidance if communication problems begin affecting parenting time or important decisions

You cannot control how the other parent communicates. But you can control how you respond.

When communication becomes a source of conflict, having clear boundaries and understanding your legal options can help protect both your peace and your children’s stability.


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During divorce, you may receive messages that trigger anger, frustration, or anxiety.Your first instinct may be to respo...
10/01/2026

During divorce, you may receive messages that trigger anger, frustration, or anxiety.

Your first instinct may be to respond immediately.

But sometimes the most strategic response is to pause.

Before replying, ask yourself:
• Does this actually require a response right now?
• What information is relevant to the issue?
• Can I respond without escalating the conflict?
• Would waiting help me communicate more clearly?
• Am I responding to solve the problem or to express my frustration?

A pause doesn't mean you're avoiding the situation.

It gives you the opportunity to respond intentionally rather than react emotionally.

Especially when communication is documented, taking a moment before pressing "send" can make a meaningful difference.

Sometimes the strongest response is the one you carefully choose.


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Receiving legal documents can be intimidating — especially when you're already dealing with the emotional stress of divo...
09/30/2026

Receiving legal documents can be intimidating — especially when you're already dealing with the emotional stress of divorce or a family law dispute.

The most important thing is not to panic or ignore them.

Instead:
• Read the documents carefully
• Take note of important dates and deadlines
• Keep copies of everything you receive
• Write down questions you don't understand
• Seek legal guidance about your situation

Ignoring legal paperwork doesn't make the issue disappear.

And responding without understanding what you're agreeing to can create unnecessary complications.

You don't need to understand every legal term immediately.

You do need to understand what the documents mean for you and what steps may be required next.

When in doubt, get informed before you respond.


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When a parenting schedule is not being followed consistently, it can create uncertainty for both parents and children.Mi...
09/29/2026

When a parenting schedule is not being followed consistently, it can create uncertainty for both parents and children.

Missed exchanges, repeated cancellations, or unexpected changes can make it difficult to maintain routines and may lead to increasing conflict.

If this happens, consider:
• Keeping a record of missed or changed parenting time
• Reviewing the existing parenting agreement
• Keeping communication calm and focused on the child
• Avoiding retaliatory decisions
• Seeking legal guidance if the pattern continues

One difficult situation doesn't necessarily define a custody case. Patterns and consistency can matter.

The goal should be to address the issue thoughtfully while protecting your child's stability and your legal position.

When parenting arrangements aren't working as intended, understanding your options can help you respond strategically rather than react emotionally.


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Divorce can put you into survival mode.You may spend so much time managing conflict, paperwork, finances, and uncertaint...
09/28/2026

Divorce can put you into survival mode.

You may spend so much time managing conflict, paperwork, finances, and uncertainty that it's difficult to think about what comes next.

But eventually, the focus can shift from simply getting through the process to rebuilding your life.

That can mean:
• Creating new routines
• Rebuilding financial stability
• Establishing healthier boundaries
• Prioritizing your well-being
• Setting goals for your next chapter

Rebuilding doesn't happen all at once.

It starts with small, intentional choices that create stability and confidence over time.

You are allowed to move beyond the crisis.

You are allowed to create something new.

And you don't have to have the entire future figured out to start rebuilding today.


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Divorce can make it tempting to focus on proving a point, winning an argument, or making sure the other person understan...
09/25/2026

Divorce can make it tempting to focus on proving a point, winning an argument, or making sure the other person understands how you feel.

But family law decisions can have consequences long after the disagreement is forgotten.

Instead of asking:
"How do I win this moment?"

Try asking:
"What decision best protects my future?"

That shift can change the way you approach:
• Negotiations
• Parenting disagreements
• Financial decisions
• Communication
• Settlement discussions

Not every battle deserves your energy.

Sometimes the strongest choice is the one that creates more stability, less conflict, and a healthier path forward.

Think beyond the moment.

Your future will live with today's decisions.


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Divorce can make parents feel pressure to get everything right.But children don't need every situation to be perfect.The...
09/24/2026

Divorce can make parents feel pressure to get everything right.

But children don't need every situation to be perfect.

They need consistency, reassurance, and adults who can help them feel safe while their family changes.

That can mean:
• Maintaining familiar routines where possible
• Keeping adult conflict away from children
• Reassuring them that the divorce is not their fault
• Allowing them to have relationships with both parents when appropriate
• Giving them space to express their feelings

Children experience divorce differently, and there is no single formula for navigating it.

What parents can provide is stability and consistency while the family adjusts to a new normal.

The goal isn't to recreate the old family structure.

It's to create a healthy and supportive one for the future.


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When people think about finances during divorce, they often focus on what's currently sitting in their checking or savin...
09/23/2026

When people think about finances during divorce, they often focus on what's currently sitting in their checking or savings account.

But your financial picture can be much broader.

It may include:
• Real estate and property
• Retirement accounts
• Investments
• Business interests
• Vehicles and valuable personal property
• Loans, credit cards, and other debts

Understanding the complete financial picture is an important part of making informed decisions during divorce.

It's difficult to negotiate effectively when you don't know what you're negotiating about.

Before making financial decisions, take the time to gather information and understand your assets, liabilities, income, and expenses.

Financial clarity can create confidence — and informed decisions can help protect your future.


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A child refusing parenting time can be an incredibly emotional situation for both parents.But reacting immediately or as...
09/22/2026

A child refusing parenting time can be an incredibly emotional situation for both parents.

But reacting immediately or assuming the reason can make an already difficult situation more complicated.

Before making decisions, consider:
• What is your child actually communicating?
• Is there a consistent pattern or a one-time reaction?
• Are there concerns about the child's well-being?
• What does the existing parenting agreement require?
• Is professional or legal guidance necessary?

The goal should always be to understand what is happening while keeping the child's best interests at the center.

Avoid turning the child into the messenger or asking them to choose sides.

When emotions are high, thoughtful communication and careful documentation can be especially important.

Every custody situation is different — and understanding the circumstances matters.


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Life doesn't always stay the same after a custody order is established.A parent's job, living situation, schedule, or a ...
09/21/2026

Life doesn't always stay the same after a custody order is established.

A parent's job, living situation, schedule, or a child's needs may change over time.

When circumstances change significantly, the existing parenting arrangement may no longer work as it once did.

Important steps may include:
• Identifying what has changed
• Keeping relevant records and documentation
• Reviewing the existing custody order
• Communicating appropriately with the other parent
• Understanding whether a modification may be appropriate

Don't assume that an informal change automatically changes the legal arrangement.

If the circumstances surrounding your family have changed, understanding your legal options can help you make decisions that support long-term stability.


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