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Whether you want an attorney to represent your business or your divorce case, Law Offices Gary Oberst, PC is just the practice you need. Oberst DeFala Law provides probate, family law, and divorce and separation legal services to clients throughout Fairfield County.

I’m so touched by this Amazon review of Love Your Divorce. My hope in writing this book was to bring together the practi...
11/04/2026

I’m so touched by this Amazon review of Love Your Divorce.

My hope in writing this book was to bring together the practical realities of divorce, what I’ve learned from more than three decades as an attorney, and the deeply human side of moving through such a major life transition.

To hear that a reader felt all of those pieces came through means so much to me. Thank you for reading, for sharing your thoughts and for helping spread the message that divorce can be approached in a healthier, more thoughtful way.

Learn more about my book on the link in my bio!

I’d love to see you this Saturday at the 10th Annual Norwalk Author Celebration at Norwalk Public Library! It’s a full d...
11/03/2026

I’d love to see you this Saturday at the 10th Annual Norwalk Author Celebration at Norwalk Public Library! It’s a full day celebrating local authors, readers, and writers, with author panels, readings, children’s programming, opportunities for aspiring writers and plenty of chances to discover new books.

I’ll be there sharing more about Love Your Divorce and my holistic approach to helping people create a healthier, happier next chapter. Please stop by, say hello and come learn more about the book.

Saturday, November 7 | 10 AM–4 PM
Norwalk Public Library, 1 Belden Avenue

See you there!

11/02/2026

Divorce asks you to make some of the biggest decisions of your life. Creating space to feel calmer, more grounded, and more connected to yourself can make a meaningful difference in how you move through the process.

One of the reasons Reiki is such an important part of my holistic approach to divorce is that, at its most fundamental level, it is about deep relaxation. When your nervous system is overwhelmed and you are operating from stress, fear or exhaustion, it can be much harder to make clear decisions for yourself.

I include more Reiki tips in my new book Love Your Divorce!

🎉What a wonderful turnout for the *Love Your Divorce* Virtual Book Launch! I’m so grateful to everyone who joined us and...
10/30/2026

🎉What a wonderful turnout for the *Love Your Divorce* Virtual Book Launch! I’m so grateful to everyone who joined us and helped make the evening so special.

I loved having the chance to talk more about the ideas behind *Love Your Divorce*, answer thoughtful questions, and even lead our group through a meditation — something that felt especially meaningful given the holistic approach at the heart of my work.

Thank you for celebrating this book with me and for being part of the conversation about a healthier, more intentional way to move through divorce. đź’™

Divorce can make you feel like you have to fight harder, react faster and protect yourself at every turn. But some of th...
10/26/2026

Divorce can make you feel like you have to fight harder, react faster and protect yourself at every turn.

But some of the most important choices you make during divorce are about knowing when to step back and ask: Will this matter five years from now?

That doesn’t mean giving in or failing to protect yourself. It means choosing your battles thoughtfully, leading with compassion when you can, and remembering that your peace has value, too.

These are some of the lessons at the heart of Love Your Divorce—because the goal isn’t simply to get through divorce. It’s to move forward in a way that leaves you ready for what comes next. 🤍

What if you brought these five principles into your divorce?As a Reiki Master, I’ve learned how powerful these simple pr...
10/21/2026

What if you brought these five principles into your divorce?

As a Reiki Master, I’ve learned how powerful these simple practices can be-especially during times of uncertainty, conflict and change.

Letting go of anger doesn’t mean forgetting what happened. Letting go of fear doesn’t mean ignoring the realities in front of you. Kindness doesn’t mean weakness.

These principles are about creating enough calm within yourself to respond thoughtfully, make clearer decisions and move forward with intention.

Divorce is a legal process, but you are a whole person going through it. That’s why I believe caring for your emotional and spiritual well-being belongs in the process, too. 🤍

10/17/2026

Join me virtually to celebrate the launch of Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After! I’ll be sharing more about the book, the story behind it and why I believe divorce can be approached with more clarity, compassion and intention. I’ll also be offering my insights as a Reiki Master and how I incorporate these principles in divorce mediation.

The virtual launch is Wednesday, October 28 at 7 PM ET on Zoom, and I would love to have you there. Come celebrate, ask questions and be part of the conversation about a healthier, more holistic way to move through divorce.

💻Registration is free–there’s a link in my bio! 🔗

Or go to www.loveyourdivorcelaunch.eventbrite.com

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10/16/2026
Thank you for all the book launch love!  🤍I poured my heart and soul into Love Your Divorce-along with more than 30 year...
10/14/2026

Thank you for all the book launch love! 🤍

I poured my heart and soul into Love Your Divorce-along with more than 30 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate one of the most difficult transitions of their lives.

This book holds so much of what I’ve learned, what I believe and what I wish everyone facing divorce could know: there is a better way through.

You can protect yourself without losing yourself.
You can choose compassion without sacrificing strength. And an ending can become the beginning of a happier, more authentic life.
Holding this book in my hands is incredibly emotional.

Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After is officially out in the world. I hope it finds its way to the people who need it most. 🤍

p.s. Please leave me a review on Amazon!

Today is the day! 🩵After more than 30 years of helping individuals and families navigate divorce, I am incredibly proud ...
10/13/2026

Today is the day! 🩵

After more than 30 years of helping individuals and families navigate divorce, I am incredibly proud to finally hold Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After in my hands-and share it with all of you.

I wrote this book because I believe there is a better way to divorce: one rooted in compassion, intention and respect for the whole person and family. Divorce may be an ending, but it can also be the beginning of something meaningful, peaceful and even joyful.

Love Your Divorce is officially out today! I hope it helps you find your own happier ever after.

đź”—Buy it on the link in my bio on Amazon and please share with people who could use this!

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