06/06/2026
What I want for my daughter is what I want for your daughter.
I want Jordan to grow up believing her life is hers to define.
I want her to know that at 22 she can be an engineer.
At 36 she can be a mother, a graduate student, and a nonprofit intern.
At 49 she can decide to start law school.
At 51 she can pass the bar on her first attempt.
Or she can be none of those things.
Because the point is not becoming what I became.
The point is knowing that she gets to decide who she will become.
I want her to understand that her worth is not determined by a title, a salary, a degree, a political party, a marital status, or anyone else’s expectations.
I want her to know that she is capable of leading in a boardroom, a classroom, a courtroom, a laboratory, a community meeting, a small business, a nonprofit, a church, a home, or a movement.
And if she chooses a path no one else understands, I want her to have the courage to walk it anyway.
Because leadership is not about telling people where to go or what to do.
Leadership is knowing you have the power to choose your own direction.
She leads. She decides. She defines success for herself. She writes her own story.