06/11/2026
In case you missed it: this week's blog is about a question most parents think they've answered, but haven't.
When there is no named guardian, a judge appoints one. That judge has never met your children. They don't know your family's values, your relationships, or who your kids would feel safest with. What they see is a petition from one family member and a competing petition from another, each certain they are the right choice.
Family conflict over guardianship is one of the most painful things that can happen to a family already in grief. The people you trust most have no automatic legal standing to step in, no matter how obvious the choice seems to everyone who loves your children.
Naming a guardian is a decision you can revisit and update. Not naming one is a decision you cannot take back.
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