09/02/2026
Back-to-School, Two Homes, One Team
Kids can have a lot of big feelings on the first day of school. And if it is there first school year with divorced parents, that is a big adjustment.
We know it can feel impossible to work together after divorce, but there are some really simple steps you can take to make the transition easier for everyone:
Keep routines consistent. Try to coordinate bedtimes, homework expectations, school supplies, and morning routines across both homes.
Share the calendar. Make sure both parents know about school events, parent-teacher conferences, activities, and important dates.
Keep communication child-focused. School logistics shouldn't become a source of conflict. When possible, communicate directly and keep your child out of the middle.
Let your child enjoy both homes. Don't put them in a position where they need to choose sides or worry about hurting one parent's feelings when they're excited about time with the other.
Give each other some grace. The first day back may not go perfectly. Focus on making your child feel supported and excited for the school year.
