10/16/2026
👤 Every family seems to have “the responsible one.”
The organized daughter.
The son who handles the paperwork.
The sibling everyone calls when something goes wrong.
So naturally, everyone says:
“They can be the trustee.”
Or executor.
Or healthcare agent.
Or financial Power of Attorney.
There's just one question:
Did anyone ask them?
Serving in one of these roles can involve real responsibility.
Before naming someone, consider having a conversation.
Ask:
🤔 Are you comfortable serving?
⏰ Would you realistically have the time?
📋 Do you understand what the role involves?
👥 Would you be comfortable dealing with other family members?
❤️ Is this something you actually want to do?
Someone may be a wonderful person and still not be the right person for a particular job.
Don't simply assign the role at the family dinner table.
Ask first.