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05/29/2026

Our finances are in constant flux. Maybe you scaled back when you lost a job, figured out how to make less work when you had a baby, or started breathing easier once student loans were finally gone. We adjust, we adapt, and we figure it out.

Divorce is harder to prepare for than most financial challenges, though. You can budget for a bill and save toward a goal.

But it's difficult to financially prepare for something when you don't yet know all the ways your life is about to change.

In this video, JB's Jamie Berger breaks down what to do, what not to do, and where to start.

When you're going through a divorce, it can feel like your personal life has become a group chat, and you never got to d...
05/27/2026

When you're going through a divorce, it can feel like your personal life has become a group chat, and you never got to decide who was in it.

But when it comes to who actually needs to know, you have more control than you might think.

If you have an attorney, being candid and upfront with them is important. The more they know, the better they can advise you.

Your attorney can also help you figure out what to share with your financial advisor, accountant, or other professionals based on your specific situation. Depending on your circumstances, you may also need to notify financial institutions, your employer's HR department, or close family members who need to update legal or financial arrangements, such as wills or beneficiaries.

When it comes to coworkers, extended family, and friends, the decision is yours. But it's worth thinking through carefully.

Sharing with the wrong person can jeopardize your legal case. A confidence broken, intentionally or not, can complicate things. At the same time, having a strong support network matters, and the people closest to you can be an important part of getting through this.

Your attorney can help you think through what the right approach looks like for your situation.

If you're not sure of what this might look like for you, we are here to help. Contact our team to coordinate your strategy planning session đź”— https://bit.ly/44vuIIr

Today, we honor the men and women who gave their lives in service to this country.What began after the Civil War as Deco...
05/25/2026

Today, we honor the men and women who gave their lives in service to this country.

What began after the Civil War as Decoration Day (a tradition of placing flowers on the graves of fallen soldiers) has grown with every generation. After World War I, the holiday expanded to honor all who died in military service. After World War II, it became a federal observance. The name has changed, but the purpose stayed the same: to remember those who didn't come home.

Wishing everyone a meaningful Memorial Day.

You tell your child's school about allergies, medications, emergency contacts, and early pickups. But what about changes...
05/22/2026

You tell your child's school about allergies, medications, emergency contacts, and early pickups. But what about changes at home, like a separation or divorce?

Generally speaking, there’s no legal requirement to share anything about your personal life with teachers, staff, or administrators. That said, schools are often better equipped to support children when they have some context.

Knowing what a child is going through at home can help teachers and counselors ensure the right support is in place, maintain consistent communication between home and school, and flag any safety considerations that may be relevant.

Note that there are also some circumstances in which it is important to communicate legal issues with a school.

For example, if there’s a restraining order in place, or if one parent has sole legal custody and is the final word in decision-making for the child, the school administration and educators should be made aware. And if you're not sure what information you should share (or what documentation you might need to provide the school), your attorney can help you come up with a plan of action.

Thank you, DB, for the kind words and for trusting Holly and our team to guide you through it.Family law matters can be ...
05/20/2026

Thank you, DB, for the kind words and for trusting Holly and our team to guide you through it.

Family law matters can be a long road. We approach every case with as much care as we do strategy, because achieving the best possible outcome means attending to both.

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. If you're in the middle of a divorce and it feels relentless right now, you're not...
05/18/2026

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. If you're in the middle of a divorce and it feels relentless right now, you're not imagining it. Divorce is considered the second most stressful life event a person can experience, behind only the death of a spouse.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel, though. Research shows that the vast majority (79%!) of divorced adults cope well or show resilience in the long term. This demonstrates that, even at its most difficult, people overcome the process itself and move beyond to a new chapter.

It’s also important to ask for help if you need it during difficult moments. Organizations like the National Alliance on Mental Health offer a wide range of resources (https://naminj.org/ and your attorney can also help you connect with the right support for your needs.

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Sources
American Psychiatric Association, Holmes-Rahe Stress Scale
American Psychological Association
Charlie Health, "The Mental Health Effects of Divorce" (2024)

Whoever coined "pick your battles" probably wasn't going through a divorce.It's good advice in theory, but in reality, d...
05/15/2026

Whoever coined "pick your battles" probably wasn't going through a divorce.

It's good advice in theory, but in reality, during divorce, everything can feel equally urgent, and knowing where to stand your ground and where to give in is a lot harder than it sounds.

This issue is at the heart of the conversation between JB’s Sarah Jacobs and Pick Your Battle’s host Dayna Wilkie. In this podcast, they explore what it looks like to help clients make those calls, how to build co-parenting plans that reduce conflict over time, and why the right guidance can make all the difference in how you come out on the other side.

🎧 Listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/battle-of-contemplating-divorce/id1608954863?i=1000705629323

Divorce doesn't just get awkward between you and your former partner.It can get awkward at family dinners, in the office...
05/13/2026

Divorce doesn't just get awkward between you and your former partner.

It can get awkward at family dinners, in the office, and in friendships you thought were safe.

But often that awkwardness comes from not knowing exactly what to say. We put together a list of common uncomfortable conversations you might find yourself having during divorce, along with potential scripts for responding. (Because knowing what to say ahead of time is a lot easier than figuring it out in the moment.)

Congratulations to our Partner, Angela M. Scafuri on being elevated to president of the New Jersey State Bar Association...
05/12/2026

Congratulations to our Partner, Angela M. Scafuri on being elevated to president of the New Jersey State Bar Association's Women in the Professions Section (WIPS).

WIPS exists to advocate for, educate, and elevate women attorneys across New Jersey. As president, Angela will lead the section's programming, professional development initiatives, and advocacy efforts on behalf of women in the legal profession across the state.

We couldn’t think of a better person for this role. Angela joined JB over a year ago, and she's brought a wealth of experience, a collaborative approach, and a commitment to family law since day one. She is Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Attorney, a qualified mediator, a past president of the Morris County Bar Association, and someone who deeply cares about the families and colleagues she works with. We know she'll bring all of that to this new role.

Well deserved, Angela!

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms, stepmoms, mothers-to-be, and mother figures celebrating today!Did you know there’s b...
05/10/2026

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms, stepmoms, mothers-to-be, and mother figures celebrating today!

Did you know there’s both a regional and local connection to this holiday?

Mother's Day was founded by Anna Jarvis, who was a Pennsylvania native. But while Pennsylvania was Jarvis's home state, she personally requested that the city of Camden, NJ, organize the first public Mother's Day celebration, which she herself attended.

As did more than 110 fraternal and civic organizations, 50 volunteer bands, and 37 congregations.

Today, Mother’s Day celebrations look different, more personal and less civic. But whether you’re celebrating at brunch, a faith service, or by taking some well-deserved time to yourself, we hope you have a wonderful day!

Think about what it feels like when your phone floods with unread notifications.Not only is the pinging sound of an inco...
05/06/2026

Think about what it feels like when your phone floods with unread notifications.

Not only is the pinging sound of an incoming alert distracting, but you can’t tell the difference between the notifications you truly need to look at and the ones that aren’t relevant.

Divorce can feel like that. It sneaks into the background of everything, from your morning coffee to conversations with co-workers to running routine errands.

It can feel like it’s everywhere all the time. And that feeling can make it hard to process, make decisions, and move forward.

Boundaries are one tool you can use to put your nervous system on “Do not disturb.” A few types of boundaries you can put into place include:

Emotional. Emotional boundaries are the limits you set around your personal information and how much of yourself you share in a given situation.

During a divorce, that means deciding who needs to know what. Your attorney will help you work through what details matter and how to handle communication with your soon-to-be ex. Outside of that, what you share and with whom is yours to decide.

Practical. Practical boundaries are the limits you set around your time and attention. Divorce comes with a long to-do list, and it can start to crowd out everything else if you let it. Designating specific times to deal with paperwork, calls, and decisions, rather than addressing them as they pop up, keeps the process from taking over your entire day.

Digital. Digital boundaries are the limits you set around what you share online and how you communicate.

What you post on social media, what you put in a text, and who has access to shared accounts can all show up during divorce proceedings in ways you might not expect. Being thoughtful about your digital footprint now can minimize complications later.

If you're working through what effective boundaries might look like for your situation, we’re here to help. Contact our team to coordinate your strategy planning session 🔗 https://bit.ly/44vuIIr

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