Dasher Law, PLLC

Dasher Law, PLLC North and South Carolina client representation in family law, collaborative divorce law, and wills

This week, we look back with heartfelt gratitude at the families we have supported and the lasting relationships we have...
03/10/2026

This week, we look back with heartfelt gratitude at the families we have supported and the lasting relationships we have built since opening our doors eight years ago.

Our commitment remains rooted in providing a path forward defined by clarity, respect, and a focus on what matters most for the future.

We believe professional excellence is best paired with a tailored approach that treats every client’s story with the dignity it deserves.

Thank you for being part of our story as we look forward to many more years together!

Having served as a court-appointed advocate for children in high-conflict custody battles, Catherine Smith saw firsthand...
02/11/2026

Having served as a court-appointed advocate for children in high-conflict custody battles, Catherine Smith saw firsthand the "permanent fissures" created by traditional litigation. This experience fueled a passion for the collaborative process—a team-based approach that prioritizes the family’s long-term health over "winning" a legal battle.

A graduate of the University of Georgia School of Law and UNC Asheville, Ms. Smith is a proud member of the Charlotte Collaborative Divorce Professionals. She is a great source of support for her clients and efficiently helps craft resolutions that allow parents to one day sit side-by-side at their child’s graduation with peace and pride.

"The results are always better for families when they choose a different path."

We believe your private life should stay private. By choosing the collaborative process, you move your negotiations behi...
02/07/2026

We believe your private life should stay private. By choosing the collaborative process, you move your negotiations behind closed doors. Instead of airing your life in a public court file, you can speak freely and honestly in a confidential setting. This protection of privacy does more than just shield your data; it preserves your dignity and allows you to resolve conflict without the pressure of public scrutiny.

We are committed to helping you maintain control over who knows your story. Keeping your case out of the courthouse isn't just about secrecy. It’s about creating a safe space where real resolution can happen.

Want to learn more about privacy within the confines of collaborative law? Reach out to us today to discuss how we can help you resolve your matter discreetly and with integrity.

Alimony claims are examined and adjudicated differently on either side of the state line. North Carolina typically focus...
02/03/2026

Alimony claims are examined and adjudicated differently on either side of the state line. North Carolina typically focuses on the "supporting vs. dependent" spouse model, where the court determines if one spouse is unable to maintain his or her standard of living without the other’s income. In South Carolina, the approach is broader, with judges currently evaluating proposed 2026 reform factors that place a high premium on the length of the marriage and the specific path toward financial independence.

Because these legal nuances are so significant, our firm is uniquely positioned to help. We have attorneys licensed in both North Carolina and South Carolina who are actively practicing family law in both jurisdictions. This dual-state perspective allows us to guide you through the complexities of your specific claim with the precision and integrity you deserve. We would love the opportunity to review the details of your situation and discuss how we can help you move forward with confidence.

Ready for a clear perspective on your possible alimony claim? Reach out to us today to schedule a consultation and let our depth of multi-state knowledge work for you.

Integrity is our North Star.In the world of family law, it’s easy to focus on the "win" and forget the human beings behi...
01/31/2026

Integrity is our North Star.

In the world of family law, it’s easy to focus on the "win" and forget the human beings behind the paperwork.

We do things differently.

We believe that a successful negotiation isn’t built on clever maneuvers or hidden agendas, but on a foundation of unwavering integrity.

When you work with us, you aren't just getting legal representation; you are choosing a partner who prioritizes radical transparency and honest communication at every turn. We focus on the high road because we know that settlements built on the truth are the only ones that truly stand the test of time.

By holding ourselves—and the process—to a higher standard of ethics, we ensure that you can move into your next chapter with your dignity intact and your values honored. At our firm, integrity isn't just a policy; it’s the commitment we make to your future.

01/27/2026

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Dasher Law, PLLC is a boutique family law firm located in downtown Matthews, with attorneys licensed to practice in both North and South Carolina. We believe in divorcing differently. We assist families facing divorce and custody disputes in a respectful, supportive manner by exclusively handling collaborative and cooperative divorce and mediation. Our founding attorney, Lindsey Dasher, is a collaborative divorce lawyer and a mediator who is also a PBTC parent. Dasher Law, PLLC

Divorce doesn’t have to be a battleground.When we think about divorce, we often think of the financial cost. But for man...
01/26/2026

Divorce doesn’t have to be a battleground.

When we think about divorce, we often think of the financial cost. But for many, the emotional cost is far heavier. Traditional litigation is designed to be adversarial, creating "winners" and "losers," often leaving both spouses exhausted and resentful. Collaborative law offers a different path, protecting your family's emotional well-being. A marriage dissolution via the collaborative approach:

Preserves Relationships: By prioritizing respectful communication, you can transition from "spouses" to "co-parents" without destroying the foundation of your family.

Privacy & Dignity: Keep your private life out of a public courtroom. Discussions happen in a safe, confidential setting.

Reduced Anxiety: You have a voice in the outcome. Instead of a judge making life-altering decisions for you, you and your partner work toward a solution that fits your unique needs.

A Focus on the Future: Instead of rehashing past grievances for a legal win, the collaborative process focuses on how everyone can move forward in a healthy manner.

The Bottom Line: Choosing collaborative law isn’t just a legal strategy; it’s an investment in your peace of mind and your family’s future.

Ready to prioritize your peace? Let’s discuss whether the collaborative process is right for you.

Q&A Thursday: Can we use a joint financial expert? The short answer: Yes. In fact, in a collaborative law setting, using...
01/22/2026

Q&A Thursday: Can we use a joint financial expert?

The short answer: Yes. In fact, in a collaborative law setting, using a single, neutral financial professional is one of the most effective ways to streamline your divorce. Why opt for a joint, neutral financial professional?

One version of the truth: Instead of "battle of the experts," you both work from the same set of data.

Cost-effective: You share the cost of one professional rather than paying for two separate experts to argue against each other.

Objective clarity: A neutral expert helps both spouses understand the long-term impact of settlement options, from tax implications to retirement planning.
Transparency: It builds trust. When financial data is gathered openly, it reduces the suspicion that often fuels legal conflict.

The Result? Decisions based on logic and facts, not emotion and guesswork. It’s about ensuring there is enough for both spouses to move forward with security.

Do you have a specific financial question about the collaborative process? Drop it in the comments or send us a DM.

Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.In observance of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, our offices will be closed today, Janu...
01/19/2026

Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

In observance of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, our offices will be closed today, January 19, 2026.

We are inspired by Dr. King’s legacy of advocacy, justice, and the power of peaceful resolution. His belief that "true peace is not merely the absence of tension; it is the presence of justice" resonates deeply with our commitment to the collaborative process. Today, we take a moment to reflect on how we can continue to serve our community with integrity and empathy.

Normal business hours will resume tomorrow.

We look forward to connecting with you then. In the meantime, we wish you a day of meaningful reflection and service.

Each year, attorneys across the state rank their peers regarding their work in various sections of the law: appellate, f...
01/13/2026

Each year, attorneys across the state rank their peers regarding their work in various sections of the law: appellate, family, real estate, and the like. Those with the highest votes are awarded Legal Elite by Business North Carolina. Yet again, in 2026, Lindsey Dasher has been recognized for her exceptional work in family law, and we are so proud to have her at the helm of our firm!

To read a full list of winners: https://businessnc.com/legal-elite-2026-the-states-top-lawyers/

Congratulations, Lindsey!

Wishing our clients and community a joyful holiday season!We are taking a brief winter break to recharge and spend time ...
12/22/2025

Wishing our clients and community a joyful holiday season!

We are taking a brief winter break to recharge and spend time with our families. Our office is closed this week and will officially reopen on Monday, December 29.

We look forward to serving you in the New Year!

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416 West John Street
Matthews, NC
28105

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Monday 8:30am - 5pm
Tuesday 8:30am - 5pm
Wednesday 8:30am - 5pm
Thursday 8:30am - 5pm
Friday 8:30am - 2pm

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