05/25/2026
Cutler Law – Estate/Elder Law Myth #4
“If a person goes into a nursing home, they take all of his/her assets.”
This is one of the most common fears I hear from families.
The reality is that a nursing home does not simply “take” your assets. However, you are generally expected to use your own income and assets to pay for your care. And with nursing home costs often reaching $12,000 per month or more, the financial impact can be overwhelming for many families.
That’s why planning matters.
Whether you are 45 years old helping a parent navigate a sudden health crisis, or you are planning for your own future, the right planning can make a tremendous difference for your family.
There may be legal options available to help protect assets for a spouse living at home or preserve assets for children and future generations. But timing is critical.
One thing I have learned over the past 24 years is this:
Families are almost never emotionally prepared for the moment nursing home planning becomes necessary. Even after helping clients through these situations for decades, going through it with my own family recently gave me an entirely different perspective.
The earlier you plan, the more options you may have.
Don’t wait until a crisis happens to ask what could have been done differently.
Experience Matters.