11/19/2025
As many of you know, my main business is being an attorney. I represent people charged with crimes, people who have been injured, people who are going through trauma because of the breakup of a family, amd people who are planning what happens after they leave this earth.
I represent people from all different walks of life: from multimillion dollar business owners to those who are homeless and struggling to survive. From those full of hope and love to those you feel like life isn't worth living anymore. From those struggling in the throes of addiction and self-harm to those who have conquered these demons. And a myriad of other folks.
We represent people who are young and old; well experienced in life and naive; who are judgmental and who have been judged; innocent and guilty; loved and hated.
But ultimately, who we represent are people. Flawed, imperfect, hurting, scared, desperate people. People on the top of the world and people down in the dumps of life. And we treat them all the same. Why? Because they are people and we are all humans. A person does not lose his or her humanity based on their circumstances, their charges, their past, their skin tone, their sexuality, their creed or religion, or any other reason. People are and always will be people.
We love them for who they are. Sometimes that is challenging and I'm sure they don't always like what I have to say because I'm not the lawyer who will tell you it's going to be OK if I know it won't be. I'm going to be real and honest with you from the moment a consultation is scheduled until the day the case is closed, I and my staff will be honest with you. If we make a mistake, we will own it. If we have good news, we will tell you. If we have bad news, you'll know it. Why? Not only is that my duty, but it's part of being human. You are paying me your hard earned money. The least I can do is be honest with you the entire time.
This job can beat you down from time to time, but I remember that, at the end of the day, my job is to love all my clients as Jesus loves me and treat them like that even if it's hard, inconvenient, or painful for me. They deserve it. Why? Because they are humans. They have emotions. They are scared and pained.
Ultimately, I view my job as a liaison between the law and love. If we all loved each other a little more, the ugly in this world could dissipate nearly immediately. It isn't hard to be kind. It isn't hard to be compassionate. It isn't hard to love someone. Do it. Carry it with you. Put it into practice.
I challenge each of you to love your neighbor today more than you did yesterday. It doesn't have to be a grand gesture. It can be as simple as saying hello to someone or sharing a smile. It can be as complex as a long conversation. Just love one another. Then carry it forward into your business or work world. The world will change and we can be that change.
This isn't idealistic; it's honest. Love and it will be returned.
That's my challenge to you.