10/07/2026
Do not panic and empty the bank account. It feels like protection in the moment. It is actually the thing you will pay for later.
In California, once a spouse is served with divorce paperwork, automatic restraining orders kick in. You cannot transfer assets to new accounts, borrow against them, or move money out of sight. Doing it anyway can open you up to a breach of fiduciary duty claim, which means more litigation, more fees, and more headaches for you.
I understand the fear behind the impulse. The lower earning spouse is terrified about what the next few months look like. The higher earning spouse is convinced everything is about to disappear. Here is the reassuring part. There is a paper trail for a reason. If money moves, we can trace where it went, and it is still divisible in your divorce. So take a breath, leave the accounts alone, and call an attorney first.