Ashby Jones and Associates LLC

08/21/2026

🌙 One evening, one morning, and what happens in between.

It's ten o'clock and you're doing it again. Rereading his last message to see if it still means what it meant this afternoon. Checking what she posted. Opening the thread you promised yourself you'd leave. 📱

I'm not going to tell you to have more willpower. I'm going to tell you what's actually happening.

You're not looking for information at that hour. You're looking for a feeling. 💔

And it has never once been in there.

There are four small things that change these twelve hours. Swipe through 👉 full post at https://ashbyjoneslaw.com/the-twelve-hours-that-change-tomorrow/

With love,
Tobia 🤍

08/21/2026

Proud of our associate William Koontz for being asked to speak at Essentials of Family Law in the area of Professionalism in the Courtroom!

08/20/2026

☀️ Close your eyes for a second and picture yourself on the beach.

Feet dug into the sand. Sun on your face. The waves coming in, and going back out, and coming in again. 🌊

Now tell me honestly how long it's been since you felt anything like that.

Pick a Saturday. Bring a towel. Sit down and close your eyes. Something in you actually repairs out there. Not your circumstances. You. 💙

Swipe through 👉 full post on the blog at
https://ashbyjoneslaw.com/go-sit-by-the-water/

With love,
Tobia 🤍

08/14/2026

🪶New on the Blog from Divorce Coach Tobia Bradley.

Tobia wrote this one as a letter, because it is the kind of thing she would rather say to someone directly than explain from a distance.

Emotional abuse is one of the hardest things to name, because it so rarely looks like what people picture. There is often no incident to point to. No photograph.

Read the full letter at:
https://ashbyjoneslaw.com/a-letter-to-the-woman-who-was-holding-it-all-together/

08/12/2026

🌿 New blog from Tobia Bradley, Certified Divorce Coach at Ashby Jones and Associates, LLC.

After two decades in this work, here is what I know. The case is only half of it. The other half is what quietly happens to you while it is going on, and almost nobody asks about that part. 💔

Today I am asking. ☕

Swipe through. Read the Full blog at the link. https://ashbyjoneslaw.com/come-home-to-yourself/

Protect Your Peace. Honor what you feel. Keep going. 💙



Lexington | Columbia | Charleston

08/10/2026

🌟Please join us in celebrating Micheal Atkins, our incredible paralegal and this month's standout team member! 🌟

✨ Her professionalism and genuine dedication to our clients make her invaluable to the AJAA team! And when she's not at the office? She's doing her favorite job of all — being a mom. 🩷

🎉 Congratulations, Micheal. We're lucky to have you!

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08/09/2026

We are hiring!

08/07/2026

Our divorce coach, Tobia Bradley, writes for the person in the hard middle of this. Not about the law, about how to get through the day. This week: 👇

👟 Put your shoes on and go to the end of the street. No phone. No plan. No destination.

You're not solving anything. You're reminding a body that's been braced for a long time that the world is still out there going about its business, with plenty of room in it for you. 🌿

Out here, you're not a case. You're a person on a sidewalk. 💙

With love,
Tobia 🤍

Swipe through 👉 full post on the blog at ashbyjoneslaw.com
https://ashbyjoneslaw.com/take-a-walk/

08/03/2026

🌅 Fresh on the blog from Tobia! — Wait for the Light. It Always Comes.

Nobody warns you about the middle — the long stretch where nothing is resolved and nothing feels like progress.

Here's the thing: dawn is not a switch. The sky starts changing an hour before you can see it.☀️

✨ You are further along than you can feel. ✨

Swipe through or read it here: https://ashbyjoneslaw.com/wait-for-the-light-it-always-comes/

💛 Tobia

08/03/2026