10/14/2026
“It’s October. Do you know who has the kids on Thanksgiving?”
If you hesitated, you’re not alone. Every year, parents in Duval, Clay, St. Johns, and Nassau counties wait until the week before the holidays to figure it out. By then, the texts have already turned into arguments.
Here’s what most people don’t realize:
If you have a court-ordered parenting plan, the holiday schedule in it isn’t a suggestion. It’s an order. Your ex can’t change it on their own, and neither can you. Skipping a handoff “just this once” can come back on you later.
If you don’t have a parenting plan yet, or yours is vague about holidays, you’re gambling with the most emotional days of the year. “We’ll figure it out” works until the first time you don’t agree.
A solid holiday schedule spells out:
✔ Who has Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve and Day, and winter break, and how it rotates year to year
✔ Exact pickup and drop-off times and locations
✔ What happens with birthdays, Mother’s and Father’s Day, and school breaks
✔ What to do if a parent travels
Sorting this out in October is much easier than in a panic on December 20th.
📖 Read the full guide, including what to do right now and what to do if your co-parent isn’t following the schedule:
🔗 https://erlingerfamlaw.github.io/erlinger-blog/holiday-time-sharing-florida.html
Is your current schedule unclear, broken, or not being followed? Find out where you stand before the holidays arrive.
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