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Locked OutIntroductionClient’s wife traveled throughout the US presenting material to health care industry workers who w...
02/17/2026

Locked Out
Introduction
Client’s wife traveled throughout the US presenting material to health care industry workers who were preparing to take licensing examinations. She had recently hired a male to assist with the presentation of the material. Client had observed some changes in his wife’s behavior that led him to suspect that the relationship between her and the new assistant was beyond that of colleagues.
Investigation Details
The first period of surveillance occurred during a trip the two went to New Orleans to conduct a three-day review course. The course was at the Hilton Garden Inn located at 821 Gravier Street, New Orleans, Louisiana, 70112. The two suspects were seen several times during the three days of surveillance in the hotel restaurant throughout the area near the conference room. There was no inappropriate conduct observed.
My client informed that the following week the two were scheduled to travel to Atlanta for a two-day review course presentation. The location of the class was at Embassy Suites, 267 Marietta Street, Atlanta, Georgia, 30313. I made reservations for two rooms at the same hotel.
I arrived at the hotel after the the suspects checked in. I approached the concierge with some cash in my hand. I told him that I needed to know the room number that Ms. ###X was in. As I asked the question, I laid the cash on the desk. He provided the room number.
I then walked to the front desk to check in. I told the front desk clerk that I was friends with Ms. ###X who was in Room ###X. I asked if there was anyway possible, I could get the room directly across the hall from her. The desk clerk checked to see if the room was available and fortunately it was.
I sent the guy that was working with me to the bar area where a reception for the course attendees was taking place. I went up to the room with my luggage and surveillance equipment.
After I got to the room, I removed the peephole from the door and replaced it with a wired peephole camera. The camera came equipped with a power cord and audio-visual cables that connected to a monitor and recorder.
About 45 minutes later the guy helping me called to tell me the suspects were walking out of the bar area toward the elevators. I turned the recorder on and sat down where I could see the monitor. I watched as the two approached the door where my client’s wife stopped at the door of her room but the man kept walking.
I was aggravated because I needed to catch them going into the same room together. My thoughts were that they probably had adjoining rooms which meant they could just open the doors on the inside of the rooms leaving me with no opportunity to catch them going into the same room overnight.
I started trying to think of my next move to catch them. About 10 minutes passed when I noticed that the man had returned to her room dressed in shorts, a t-shirt, and flip flops. He knocked on the door; I was able to see her open the door to let him in. It was just a matter of time before we would have what we needed.
What happened next would be what sealed the deal for my client. It would be about 10 seconds of video that would cause his wife to settle on his terms.
I could not believe what I was seeing. She opened the door to her room dressed in a skimpy negligée holding a room service tray. As she bent over to place the tray in the hallway the door began to close and hit her in the butt pushing her into the hall. The door closes locking her out of the room. She begins pounding on the door to get back in. As she is looking left and right to see if anyone was in the hallway, I could read her lips as she said, “Oh Sh*t”!!



*Image is not from the actual investigation.

02/09/2026

First Case (continued)

Findings From Surveillance

I had very mixed emotions during the drive from Grenada to Memphis. I wanted to know but i didn’t want to believe there was something going on. I took the Southaven exit to go to Walmart to buy binoculars. If there was something to see I wanted to be 100 percent certain of who was going in or coming out the door of her apartment.

Once we arrived at the apartment complex, I found a place to park where we could see the entrance to the parking lot and the doorway of her apartment. After about 15 minutes a car parked near her apartment. As the doors of the car opened, I watched carefully to see who it was. I quickly recognized that it was two of the workers from our son’s daycare.

About 10 minutes later a red dodge pickup truck drove through the gate as it got closer to her apartment the driver started blowing the horn. My friend and I watched as the truck came to a stop near the sidewalk of my wife’s apartment. As the truck stopped, she ran out of the door of her apartment, he exited the truck, she ran to him, and they embraced and kissed. I was mad as hell, and I thank God my friend was with me.

I didn’t like what I saw but I needed to see it. I asked Chris to drive back to Oxford so I could get my thoughts together. I realized that when a woman says the words “I am not happy” a man better listen up. Those are warning words that she is only going to say a few times to get a man’s attention. The wheels of her mind are already in motion; she just has not made a final decision yet. It is when a woman follows those words with “I want a divorce” it is too late to change her mind. (I will elaborate more in another post).

The next few days were hard to keep my mouth shut. I wanted to confront her, and I wanted to call her family, but I could not prove anything. Before I said a word to her, I wanted undeniable proof of what she was up to. I was determined to find out who this guy was and everything about him. It was not about jealousy it was about the safety and well being of my child now.

This was before everyone had cell phones with cameras. If you wanted a picture or video, you needed a camera. So, I borrowed a video camera and a digital camera and went to work. I caught them together multiple times leaving no doubt that it was more than a casual relationship. I assembled the pictures, video, and the documents and information about I had about her boyfriend.

I walked into my attorney’s office and laid the evidence out for him. When he finished looking over everything he said “Jeff you are good at this. I have been practicing law for over 30 years, and this is the best investigative work I have ever seen.”

A couple of days later my attorney called to ask if I was interested in helping one of his clients who was going through the same thing I was. He told me what the going rate was for a Private Investigator and he said if you will do for them what you did for yourself, I will start sharing your name with other attorneys. I agreed to help his client out, but I was not ready to start a full-time business yet.

02/04/2026

The First Case
Section 1: Background of the case.

It was Veteran’s Day, Wednesday, November 11, 1998, when things began to unfold in my life leading to what I have been doing for other people for almost 28 years. I was seven years into my second marriage with a 2-year-old son and I had two sons from my first marriage. Four months earlier I retired from the Army and was in the first semester of Law School at Ole Miss.

That morning, I attended my two classes then met my wife, our two-year-old, and my ten-year-old in Oxford. I had found a new house that was a few weeks from being finished that I wanted her to look at. We met the builder and the agent at the house we both liked it and signed a contract to buy the house. We went to lunch together. Afterwards I had one more class, so she and the boys drove back to our home in Bartlett, TN while I went back to campus. I drove home after class and walked in the door around 4:00 pm.

Shortly after I got home, I was in the garage when I heard the phone ring. I opened the back door and picked up the phone. As I put the phone to my ear I heard a lady saying “Ms Whitlock we received approval on your application, we need you to come by the office to sign your lease, pay your security deposit and your first months rent, and pick up your keys. I hung the phone up and walked to our bedroom where my wife was.

Jesus Christ himself could have told me what I was just before hearing, and I would have looked him square in the eyes and said no way. As I walked into our room, I asked what the call was about. With absolutely no idea that anything was wrong I heard the words “I’m not happy and I want a divorce”. I was caught by complete surprise which left me confused and hurt.

Two days later she tells me that she wants me to take my ten-year-old with me to Oxford and enroll him in school there. No more discussion this is what I’m going to do, and he needs to go with you. So, I called the agent in Oxford to tell her what was going on and asked for help. Fortunately, someone else wanted the house we had signed the contract on, and she had a client who had a tenant in a two-bedroom cabin who was dropping out of school and wanted someone to take over their lease.

By Monday of the following week, we moved into the cabin and Brandon was enrolled in school. Every lawyer will tell you the first year of law school is hell. I do not think it is anything someone can understand what it is like without experiencing it. I went through some physically and mentally demanding training during my military career, but law school was a different kind of challenge.

A classmate, Chris B, became a very good friend. He, his wife, and their two children lived close to our cabin. Chris would come study with me, but he also spent a lot of time listening and talking to me. He and his wife would ask Brandon and I to join them for dinner. We got through exams that first semester and we continued to get together through the break to hunt, try to stay on top of the reading assignments for the second semester.

In January classes resumed with the same pace as the first one. After class Chris and I would study and we joined a couple study groups. Every other Friday I would meet Brandon’s mother in Grenada so he could go for visitation with her. On Friday February 12, 1999, Chris rode with me to meet Brandon’s mother. Driving back North on intestate 55 I was venting to Chris about how hurt and upset I was about the separation. I remember saying to him I wish I could figure this out. As we got close to the Batesville exit, he suggested we continue driving to her apartment in Germantown, TN to see if we can figure things out.

Section 2
Surveillance Notes:
Update coming soon

02/02/2026

I have worked as a Private Investigator off and on for the last 28 years. This work has given me the opportunity to work on a wide variety of cases all of which fall into what I refer to as the two F’s, Family or Freedom.
For people who value their family or their freedom want help finding answers. The questions they have range from:
• Is my spouse cheating?
• Which employee is stealing from my company?
• What is the background of this person my child is involved with?
• How are my children treated by their new stepparent?
• Where is my spouse hiding money?
• The police have arrested my __________ for __________ and I need help proving somebody else did it.
The list goes on and on with the different concerns people have and the questions they need answers to. I have had people call or meet with me with some of the wildest set of circumstances that anyone could ever imagine. There are times that I hear stories that break my heart, others make me nauseous, some cause anger because of what the person is going through. Then there are cases that I have to fight back the urge to laugh at how far fetched the story is that I was just told.
Some of the things I have learned is never jump to conclusions because we live in a crazy world. Things that we once thought were impossible are in fact now very possible. Pictures are no longer worth a thousand words. Good and bad people come in all sizes, shapes, colors, forms, fashions, and backgrounds which means first impressions are worthless. Some people will tell you exactly what they think you want to hear just to get a dollar from you or get you to go away.
I have decided to start sharing some of the things I have learned about behavior, life, victims, criminal offenders, the legal system, employees, employers, and somethings that don’t fit in a category. I will not be sharing the names of people involved except some criminal cases that were well known because they were either in local or national news.
I am not sure now how often I will share the stories, but I promise they will be interesting. There are somethings that I believe are definite signs that women who cheat and the men they cheat on. I think men who cheat fall into one or two categories, there are some women who fall squarely into one of the men’s categories. Stories of how a few drinks or casual drug use impacted both of the F’s for the people involved. Last but not least is the extremes that people will go just to get their way regardless of who it hurts, whether it is true or not, and no matter what it costs.
If you are interested or curious follow these stories and lessons learned at https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61573221332462 I think you will find some to be informative, some entertaining, and some will make you question things that you previously had full faith and confidence in.

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Our investigation into Lane Kiffin has revealed he is unpredictable and may or may not be faithful in relationship.

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Happy Veterans Day to all my fellow Veterans. Thank you for your service to our Country!!

08/30/2025

PLEASE NOTE: I Spy investigations, Inc. and The Whitlock Agency, Inc is not affiliated with, associated with, or has any relationship with Whitlock and Associates, Inc. or Chris Whitlock. If you or someone you know had any experience with that firm or individual, good or bad please do not confuse the two businesses or the names.

The work that WE do is dedicated to providing courteous, quality, and affordable services with an intent to collect evidence and deliver results. We do not make unrealistic promises, you will get what you pay for, and you will not be charged for work that was not done or equipment that was not used We will also provide you with a detailed invoice of every item you are billed at the agreed upon rate.

We will never ask you to provide your credit card, debit card, or banking information directly to us. That type of information is only entered by our customers using their own electronic device through an encrypted and secure means to ensure your information is never compromised. We never see our customers credit card or banking information. Our system insures that type information doesn’t fall into the wrong hands and is never charged without your full knowledge and written consent.

We are in this to serve our customers the way we would want to be treated. Give us a chance you will be glad you did. References from actual clients are available upon request.

We Catch Cheaters, We Don’t Cheat!!

08/15/2025

Cheaters are going to cheat!!

For many years I have seen an influx of business from September through February!!

Why is that you may ask, Hunting Season is the answer!! It’s not only the hunters in the woods chasing wildlife people in general start looking for a WILD LIFE!!

Just pay attention to what you see in people. Some start wearing camouflage but keep in mind the real goal of camouflage, It's a form of concealment.

I have seen every size and shape out there. Pay attention to what’s going on. We have seen different variations of hunting camps, some are in the woods, some are five star hotels, and some are people going to houses while the real hunter is in the woods!!

If you have any doubts give me a call, make sure the only thing that gets bagged belongs in the woods not in your bed!!

07/26/2025

Last week I received a call from a new client who had tried to catch their spouse cheating. Their efforts failed when their spouse saw them trying to take pictures. When I asked why they tried to do it themselves they said my lawyer suggested I do it.

Attorneys have a saying that “a person who hires themselves as their attorney has a fool for a client.” There are many reasons that statement is true, the main one is regardless of your talents if you are too close to the situation emotions get in the way.

Technology has come a long way and is easier to get and more affordable. A tracking device 25 years ago cost around $2300.00 dollars and they were not easy to get. Now you can find a variety of devices available on Amazon some are decent and some are junk. What you can’t purchase on Amazon is patience and control. I have seen every emotion you can imagine when we confirm our client’s suspicions. I have seen those same reactions when someone realizes they have been caught.

In 2004 I had a client who felt the need to tell his wife that she had been caught with her boyfriend who was a drug dealer. When he found out they had been caught he got paranoid about what else my client knew. The wife drove the boyfriend to my client’s house while he laid sleeping in his bed the boyfriend shot him 9 times in the head and neck with a 22 caliber rifle killing him instantly.

The point is we never know how we are going to react in a difficult situation. We also don’t know how the ones being caught are going to react. Some “Do It Yourself” projects look real easy until you get started. I know there are many times I would have saved time, money, and aggravation if I would have left it to the professionals to start with.

07/26/2025

As parents we worry about our children but when we worry about our kids safety and welfare when they are WITH their other parent it is torture. Hopefully both parents can set their differences aside and always act in the best interests of their chidren but some can’t or won’t.

If you have REAL concerns about what your children are being exposed to then give us a call. We will either give you the peace of mind you deserve or get you the evidence you need to prove you have valid cocerns.

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