Renken Law Firm

10/19/2026

One of the biggest questions we get from parents is asking "how to talk with their children about divorce once you’ve decided to move forward with the process."

While choosing the right time to start the separation or divorce process can help minimize disruption, how you share the news with your kids matters just as much. Every child is different, so it’s critical to think about the personality, age and emotional needs of each child as well as the dynamics between you and your soon to e ex-spouse.

Here are some steps that can help make the conversation easier for your child:

1. Be deliberate about when you inform your kids. Don’t rush to tell your children before you’ve thought about a plan for next steps and, if possible, a shared narrative you and your spouse can convey to them. For example, if you haven’t started the divorce process and plan to maintain the status quo with both parents continuing to live in the same home, depending on your child’s age and whether you and your spouse can remain civil in the home, you may want to delay informing the children until you have a more definite plan.

2. Present a united front. If possible, both parents should be present for the conversation to reinforce stability and love. Try to align upfront on a shared narrative to convey to the children, and commit to honesty and clarity while maintaining boundaries about the details of your relationship.

3. Choose a quiet time. Allow several uninterrupted hours without school, work, homework, sports or other obligations that might distract you or your children from the moment. This gives your kids time to ask questions and emotionally process the news.

4. Be prepared with resources. Your kids will need to process in their own time and in their own way. This may require more than one conversation and may be challenging for them to discuss directly with you or your spouse. Have information on hand about counseling, support groups or trusted adults they can talk to. If your kids or family already have a counselor, consider scheduling a session with them to facilitate the conversation or be available immediately after sharing the news.

5. Allow space for questions. Let your kids know that it’s OK to have questions or concerns during the conversation and in the future. Keep communication open so they feel comfortable coming back to you and your spouse.

6. Offer age-appropriate agency. Not having a choice in their parents’ decision to divorce can be destabilizing and frightening for kids. Giving them agency over small choices, including whether they want to talk with you about the divorce, can help them regain a sense of control.

Providing a safe space is the best thing you can offer any child.

10/13/2026

We are proud to partner and sponsor with Space City Futbol Club.

We are proud to have Renken Law Firm as a Community Partner of Space City FC. Thank you for investing in women’s soccer and being part of what we’re building here in Houston.

Same city. Same community.

10/13/2026

With the holidays right around the corner, yes, we said it, here are some practical tips to utilize when coparenting.

Only you get to decide whether or not a situation deserves to be escalated.

Picking those battles will ultimately lead to less conflict and more peace at home

10/07/2026

With 25 years of family law experience under our belt, we definitely have seen and heard a thing or two, especially in our initial consultations.

When we are in an initial consultation, we listen attentively to each and every potential client to ensure we can provide the service that they need, because no divorce, child custody or child modification case are EVER the same.

Conducting over thousands of initial consultations in our career, certain phrases or words can really give us pause.
Things like:

* "She NEVER does XYZ."

* "She is ALWAYS asking for money."

* "He NEVER does anything around the house."

* "He NEVER pays for anything."

Whenever the ALWAYS and NEVER get thrown around so freely, it makes our spidey senses fire up.

Because when we really begin probing, the reality is, the emotion might trump the facts of the matter. We aren't saying that we don't believe what the clients are telling us, on the contrary, we are just preparing them for the reality that someone, either the Opposing Counsel or a Judge, will be asking the same questions.

All or nothing statements aren't helpful in family law. Facts, details, objective language is more effective and considerably more useful.

The more you know.

10/06/2026

In case you were wondering!

10/05/2026

Mel Robbins has been all over the news with her "Let them" theory and work. She recently had James J. Sexton, Esquire, a renowned, high-profile divorce attorney on her podcast.

She asked him about whether it was in the best interest to keep the marriage together for "the kids".

Here were his thoughts. Do you agree?

10/02/2026

We recently saw a funny post talking about songs associated with divorce. Because it feels like every divorce has an anthem or theme song.

We came up with a list of songs that we found fitting!

🎶 Another One Bites the Dust by Queen

🎶 I'm a Survivor by Destiny's Child

🎶 I will Survive by Gloria Gaynor

🎶 Irreplaceable by Beyonce

🎶 Go Your Own Way by Fleetwood Mac

🎶 Don't Go Away Mad, Just Go Away by Motley Crue

Can you help us add to the list?

10/01/2026

We were examining our caseload the other day because someone asked us who we represented more: women or men?

As an all female, boutique law firm, we were pleasantly surprised to notice that we were split right down the middle with an equal representation for both mothers and fathers.

We pride ourselves on providing exceptional service to each and everyone of our client's, no matter who they are. Every case tells a story and we are honored when we are chosen to be a part of that story.

You have a choice when choosing who will represent you in your family matter and we take that very seriously.

Contact us today to see why we are different.

09/30/2026

Family law can really be challenging most days.

Being responsible for people's lives is not for the faint of heart.

We do what we do because we love helping others.

When we get special little treats like this from happy clients, it makes it even more worth while.

If you are looking for a family law firm that really makes a difference, call us today!

09/29/2026

September 29th is National Coffee Day. The nectar of the Gods deserves to be celebrated today and every day!

Here is some information:

Popular Deals and Freebies

Dunkin': Rewards members get a free medium hot or iced coffee with any app purchase.

Krispy Kreme: Get a free small or medium hot or iced coffee with any purchase.

Starbucks: Introducing the new air-whipped iced espresso drink called the Aerocano.

Burger King: Royal Perks members can grab any size coffee for just $1.

7-Eleven: Loyalty members can get large coffees for $1.49. [1]

Fun Facts

According to the National Coffee Association, adults in the U.S. drink roughly 400 million cups of coffee every day.

About 66% of American adults drink coffee daily, making it more widely consumed than tap or bottled water.