06/20/2026
5 Things NOT to Do After Being Charged With a Crime
Being charged with a crime is frightening. Whether it is a misdemeanor, DUI, drug charge, assault allegation, theft case, domestic assault, probation violation, or felony indictment, the decisions you make early can affect the entire case.
Many people hurt themselves not because they are guilty, but because they panic. They talk too much. They miss court. They post online. They try to explain themselves to the wrong people. They wait too long to get help.
Here are five things you should not do after being charged with a crime.
1. Do Not Try to Talk Your Way Out of It
One of the biggest mistakes people make is believing they can explain the situation and make the case go away.
As I often tell my clients, far more people talk their way into jail than talk their way out.
You may think you are helping yourself. You may think the officer, detective, or prosecutor just needs to hear your side. But statements made in the heat of the moment can be misunderstood, taken out of context, or used against you later.
Even innocent explanations can create problems. A small inconsistency can become a major issue. A statement meant to sound cooperative can become evidence for the State.
You have the right to remain silent. You also have the right to speak with a lawyer before answering questions. Using those rights is not rude, suspicious, or disrespectful. It is often the smartest thing you can do.
A simple response is usually best:
“I want to remain silent. I want to speak with a lawyer.”
Then stop talking about the facts of the case.
2. Do Not Post About the Case on Social Media
Social media can be dangerous in a criminal case.
Do not post about what happened. Do not complain about the alleged victim, the officer, the witness, or the prosecutor. Do not post jokes, memes, explanations, screenshots, videos, private messages, or “your side of the story.”
Even posts that seem harmless can be used against you. Prosecutors may look at Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, X, Snapchat, and other platforms. Screenshots can be saved even after a post is deleted.
You should also be careful about comments, emojis, photos, check-ins, and private messages. “Private” does not always stay private.
The safest rule is simple: do not discuss the case online at all.
3. Do Not Contact the Alleged Victim or Witnesses
After an arrest, people often want to smooth things over. They want to apologize, explain, argue, ask someone to drop the charges, or ask a witness to “tell the truth.”
Do not do that without talking to your lawyer first.
Contacting an alleged victim or witness can create new problems. It may violate a bond condition, a no-contact order, an order of protection, or a court instruction. It can also be interpreted as intimidation, harassment, or an attempt to influence testimony.
Even if the other person contacts you first, be careful. A friendly conversation can turn into evidence. A text message can become an exhibit. A phone call can be recorded.
If communication is necessary, your lawyer can help determine the proper way to handle it.
4. Do Not Miss Court or Ignore Bond Conditions
Missing court can make a bad situation much worse.
If you fail to appear, the court may issue a warrant. Your bond may be revoked. You may face an additional charge. You may also make it harder for your lawyer to argue that you are responsible, reliable, and should remain out of custody while the case is pending.
Bond conditions matter too. If the court orders you not to contact someone, stay away from a location, avoid alcohol, report to supervision, submit to testing, or obey other restrictions, take those conditions seriously.
You may disagree with the conditions. You may think they are unfair. But violating them can damage your case and your freedom.
Write down every court date. Keep copies of your paperwork. Stay in contact with your lawyer. If you are unsure about a condition, ask before acting.
5. Do Not Wait Too Long to Get Legal Help
Criminal cases begin moving quickly. Evidence can disappear. Video may be overwritten. Witnesses may become harder to locate. Court dates may come up before you fully understand what is at stake.
A lawyer can review the charge, examine the facts, request discovery, evaluate possible defenses, look for constitutional issues, consider whether a motion to suppress should be filed, and advise you about the risks and options.
Early action can matter. In some cases, the most important work happens before trial — investigating the facts, challenging the stop or search, reviewing statements, preparing for preliminary hearing, negotiating with the State, or preserving evidence.
Waiting does not usually help. It often gives the State a head start.
Final Thought
Being charged with a crime does not mean you are guilty. It does not mean the State can prove its case. It does not mean you have no options.
But what you do next matters.
Do not talk your way into trouble. Do not post about the case. Do not contact witnesses or alleged victims. Do not miss court. Do not wait to protect yourself.
If you have been charged with a crime in Tennessee, contact Lucas Law Firm to discuss your case and your options.
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Randy P. Lucas
Lucas Law Firm
111 College Street
Gallatin, Tennessee 37066
Phone: 615-512-6754
Email: [email protected]
Attorney Advertising / Disclaimer:
This blog post is attorney advertising and is provided for general informational purposes only. It is not legal advice and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case depends on its own facts and law. No result can be guaranteed. If you have been charged with a crime, you should speak directly with a criminal defense lawyer about your specific situation.
I have practiced criminal law and delinquency law for more than 40 years.