09/22/2026
Many people assume you need an attorney for a divorce, but legal representation is optional, not required.
Divorce mediation is when two people work with a skilled neutral to reach agreement on property, support, and parenting. You control the process and outcome, not a court, so you can move toward resolution on your terms.
Some couples bring attorneys into their mediation. Some consult a lawyer after we've drafted the agreement to review what you've created. Some work through the whole process and have their attorneys look everything over before you sign. That last one is smart—having a lawyer review your agreement before you finalize it helps protect your interests.
Nothing says you have to hire an attorney, especially if you and your spouse can work through differences reasonably. Financial professionals help with complicated assets—joint business ownership, complex investments, retirement accounts. Divorce coaches help you get in the right mindset. Attorneys know marriage law and advocate for you when things aren't cordial between spouses or co-parents.
What you actually need is someone who understands how to move two people from conflict to resolution. That's the work. That's what it costs, and it saves you money by helping you reach agreement faster and with less back-and-forth.
If you're heading toward divorce, you don't have to hire an attorney to resolve it. Mediation gets you there without litigation, without the cost, and with your interests protected. Let's talk through your situation.