09/22/2026
Adulting starts at 18…So can estate planning. 🎂⚖️📑❤️
Today was a special one at our office. I created an estate plan for a smart, brave, strong young person who turned 18 today – my daughter!!
Most people hear “estate planning” and think it is something you do when you are older, have accumulated wealth, bought a house, or started a family.
But I like to think about it differently. Estate planning can be a rite of passage into adulthood.
At 18, the law recognizes you as an adult. With that independence also comes responsibility, including deciding who you trust to help you with your healthcare, finances, and important decisions if there ever comes a time when you cannot make those decisions yourself.
For parents, it is also an important transition. After years of making decisions for our children, turning 18 means learning how to stand beside them rather than automatically act for them.
That is what good planning can do.
It isn’t about expecting something bad to happen.
It is about entering adulthood intentionally—with a voice, a plan, and people you trust.
So today, along with celebrating my daughter’s birthday, we celebrated something else:
A young person taking one of their first legal steps into adulthood. Now that’s adulting! ❤️
Happy 18th birthday to my firstborn! 🎂