08/27/2026
An $85 robotics club can become a custody dispute when two Tuesday meetings fall during the other parent’s scheduled time. 📅 Before registering a child for a team, club, lesson, tutoring program, or performance, check the current custody order.
The order may control educational decisions, extracurricular consent, transportation, expenses, or parenting time. ⚖️ A recurring travel team with weekly practices, tournaments, equipment, and hotel costs can raise very different issues from a one time classroom event.
Put the details in writing before the registration deadline. Include the activity dates, total fees, transportation needs, schedule conflicts, proposed cost division, and a reasonable response date. 📝 Keep notices, invoices, receipts, registration materials, and written responses.
Participation and payment are separate questions. An agreement may require equal cost sharing, an income based percentage, or advance written consent before reimbursement. Mahserjian & Mahserjian-Ortiz, PLLC helps families in Saratoga review these terms and determine what the controlling documents require. 👨👩👧
If disagreements keep causing lost parenting time, transportation conflicts, or unilateral registrations, our team can evaluate whether negotiation, mediation, enforcement, or modification may be appropriate. Read the full article for practical steps when school activities become a co parenting dispute: https://www.jeanmahserjian.com/new-york-co-parents-disagree-school-activities/
When co-parents disagree about a child’s school activities, start by reviewing the custody order, parenting plan, divorce judgment, settlement agreement,