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05/29/2026

Children notice more than adults think they do during a divorce.

They notice:
✔ tension
✔ silence
✔ arguments
✔ changes in routine
✔ stress in the home
✔ when parents speak badly about each other

Even when adults believe:
“They’re too young to understand.”

Children often absorb far more emotionally than people realize.

And one of the biggest misconceptions in family law is thinking custody battles only affect the parents involved.

The emotional impact on children matters too.

That’s why courts often focus heavily on:
• stability
• communication
• co-parenting behavior
• consistency
• the child’s overall wellbeing

Divorce and custody situations are emotional enough without children feeling like they’re caught in the middle of adult conflict.

Sometimes the healthiest thing parents can do is pause and ask:
👉🏽 “How does this situation feel from the child’s perspective?”

Because kids may not always say what they’re feeling…

…but they usually feel it.

💬 What do you think helps children most during divorce:
Consistency?
Peace between parents?
Honest communication?
Something else?

05/28/2026

If you are dealing with unpaid child support, denied parenting time, or ongoing co-parenting conflict, it’s important to understand your legal rights and options under Illinois law.

Larimer Law LLC helps parents throughout the Chicagoland Area navigate difficult family law matters with clarity and practical guidance.

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You do not have to navigate these issues alone.

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05/28/2026

One of the biggest misconceptions about divorce?

👉🏽 “If I refuse to sign the papers, the divorce can’t happen.”

That’s… usually not how it works.

A spouse refusing to cooperate can absolutely slow things down, create stress, and make the process more expensive…

…but they typically cannot hold someone hostage in a marriage forever simply by ignoring paperwork.

In Illinois, there are legal procedures for:
✔ serving divorce papers
✔ handling unresponsive spouses
✔ default judgments in certain situations
✔ moving the case forward through the court process

And honestly?
Some people don’t refuse to sign because they want the marriage.

They refuse because:
• they’re angry
• they want control
• they want revenge
• or they think delaying things gives them power

Meanwhile everybody involved is emotionally exhausted and arguing over who gets the air fryer and the dog. 😩

The legal process can feel overwhelming enough without misinformation making it worse.

💬 Before today, did you think someone could completely stop a divorce just by refusing to sign?

05/27/2026

One angry text message can absolutely come back to haunt you during a custody case.

And unfortunately…
a lot of people don’t realize that until it’s sitting in front of a judge.

Texts, emails, DMs, screenshots, social media posts — all of it can potentially become evidence.

That late-night:
👉🏽 “You’ll never see the kids again.”
👉🏽 “I’ll make sure they hate you.”
👉🏽 14-paragraph rage essay sent at 1:12AM 😩

…can create serious problems in court.

Especially if the messages suggest:
❌ threats
❌ harassment
❌ manipulation
❌ parental alienation
❌ instability or hostility

The hardest part?

Most people send emotional messages in moments of frustration, hurt, or anger — then later realize those same messages may not reflect well in a legal case.

Sometimes the best response really is:
“Do not send that text.”

(Yes. Even if your best friend said it “ate.” 😭)

💬 Be honest:
Have you ever typed out a message during an argument… then deleted it because you knew it would make things worse?

05/26/2026

A lot of people think the hardest part is getting divorced.

Sometimes?

The hardest part starts AFTER the divorce is finalized.

Because the paperwork may be done…
but the conflict keeps going.

One parent stops following the parenting plan.

Child support suddenly becomes inconsistent.

Arguments start over holidays, pickups, vacations, school decisions, new relationships… and somehow every text message turns into a full season finale. 😩

The reality is:
Divorce decrees and parenting agreements are legally binding court orders.

If one side is refusing to comply, there may be legal options available to enforce or modify those orders.

And no — ignoring the problem usually doesn’t make it disappear.
It usually just makes people angrier, more exhausted, and more emotionally drained.

Some of the most stressful family law cases aren’t about ending the marriage…

They’re about trying to find peace afterward.

💬 What do you think causes the most post-divorce conflict:
Communication?
Money?
New partners?
Parenting differences?

(Everybody’s answer is probably different… and probably VERY personal. 😭)

05/25/2026

One of the hardest things parents deal with after a breakup?

👉🏽 Being kept away from their child.

And unfortunately… it happens more often than people realize.

A missed exchange turns into:
“Don’t come here.”

One argument turns into:
“You’re not seeing them this weekend.”

One bitter co-parent suddenly starts using the child as leverage.

Here’s the important part:
In Illinois, one parent generally cannot simply decide to cut the other parent off without consequences.

Courts take parenting time violations seriously — especially when a child’s relationship with a parent is being interfered with.

If this is happening, documentation matters:
✔ missed visits
✔ screenshots/texts
✔ schedule changes
✔ communication attempts

And as tempting as it is…
retaliation usually makes things worse.

Family court can already feel emotionally exhausting without turning every exchange into an episode of Survivor: Co-Parenting Edition. 😭

The goal should always be protecting the child — not “winning” against the other parent.

💬 Have you ever seen co-parenting become weaponized after a breakup or divorce?

(You’d be surprised how many people have.)

05/22/2026

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Family law cases are deeply personal, emotional, and often overwhelming. Knowing your attorney will stand beside you through every step matters.

At Larimer Law LLC, clients are more than just case files. Angela Larimer is committed to providing strong advocacy, honest guidance, and compassionate support during some of life’s most difficult moments.

Thank you to Todd for the kind words and trust.

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Serving the Chicagoland Area
773.902.0200
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05/21/2026

🔥 BIG NEWS for Attorney Angela S. Larimer

Angela was recognized by Leading Lawyers as one of the top women lawyers in Illinois — an honor earned through recommendations and votes from fellow female attorneys across the state. Out of approximately 100,000 lawyers in Illinois, only about 2% receive this distinction.

That means other lawyers — the people who actually know the work happening behind the scenes — recognized her legal skill, professionalism, and reputation in Family Law.

In a field full of noise, awards bought with fancy plaques, and “best lawyer” ads every five minutes… peer recognition like this actually means something.

If you’re looking for experienced guidance through divorce, custody, child support, or other family law matters in the Chicagoland area, Angela Larimer is someone people in the legal community clearly respect.

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05/21/2026

💰 Tax season and co-parenting disputes tend to collide FAST.

One of the most common questions divorced or separated parents ask is:
👉 “Who gets to claim the child on taxes?”

Many people assume the parent the child lives with automatically claims them — but that’s not always how it works.

In Illinois family law situations, this can depend on:
✔️ parenting agreements
✔️ IRS rules
✔️ dependency exemptions
✔️ child tax credits
✔️ court orders between parents

Unfortunately, this issue can quickly turn into conflict when expectations are unclear or agreements are not being followed.

Because nothing says “healthy co-parenting” quite like fighting over dependents in April. 😭

If you are dealing with divorce, custody, or parenting disputes, understanding your legal rights before tax season can help avoid unnecessary stress.

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Serving the Chicagoland Area
773.902.0200
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05/20/2026

📱 That vacation photo… rant post… or “living my best life” status update could end up being used in court.

Many people don’t realize that social media activity can become evidence during a divorce or custody case.

Posts, comments, screenshots, messages, check-ins, spending photos, and even new relationships online may sometimes be brought into court proceedings.

Before posting online during a family law dispute, it’s important to understand how social media can affect:
✔️ divorce cases
✔️ custody disputes
✔️ financial claims
✔️ parenting issues
✔️ credibility in court

In today’s world, screenshots last forever. Unfortunately… so do bad decisions made at 1AM on Facebook. 😬

Larimer Law LLC helps clients throughout the Chicagoland Area navigate complex family law matters with practical legal guidance.

📞 773.902.0200
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05/19/2026

“What if my child refuses to visit the other parent?”

This is one of the most emotional and complicated situations many co-parents face.

In Illinois, a child’s wishes may be considered by the court — but that does not automatically mean parenting time can stop. Judges often look at several factors, including:
✔️ the child’s age and maturity
✔️ safety concerns
✔️ the relationship with each parent
✔️ existing court orders
✔️ the child’s best interests

Every family situation is different, and reacting emotionally without understanding your legal options can sometimes make the situation more difficult.

If you are dealing with parenting time conflicts or custody concerns, it’s important to understand your rights before taking action.

📞 Larimer Law LLC
Serving the Chicagoland Area
773.902.0200
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