06/23/2026
When should you go to mediation?
The answer is not always about timing. Often, it is about readiness.
Some people prefer to mediate before they separate so they have a clear plan for finances, housing, and parenting. Others need time and space to process the end of the relationship before they are ready to discuss solutions.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer. The right time for mediation depends on your situation, your goals, and where you are in the process.