Carmel Family Law

03/09/2026

⚖️ Let’s Meet Zoe⚖️

Zoe VanDeSteeg is our newest Associate Attorney at Carmel Family Law. Zoe’s focus is Family Law, Prenuptial Agreements, Estate Planning, and Guardianship matters. She is committed to assisting clients, whether they are parting ways in a relationship or exploring estate planning matters by upholding their best legal interests so they can confidently transition into their next chapters.

Zoe VanDeSteeg was admitted to the Indiana State Bar in October 2023. Prior to moving to Indiana and practicing Family Law, Zoe graduated from Chicago-Kent College of Law and earned her undergraduate degree at Loyola University of Chicago. While attending law school, she gained valuable experience by interning at the Center for Disability and Elder Law (CDEL). She also enjoyed volunteering with Wills for Heroes.

01/26/2026

Due to the severe weather conditions, our offices will be closed today; however you may still reach us via email.
Normal office hours will resume on Tuesday, January 27th.

01/21/2026

Carmel Family Law will be sponsoring a pickleball tournament at 3rd Shot Pickleball on January 31st from 2-6 pm.
Enjoy a game of SINGO to help raise money for programs that help empower women & girls.
See flyer for more details!
Come on out and support our team, "Order on the Court"

01/20/2026

Congrats to the IU Football team!!

Perfection.

12/23/2025

✨Carmel Family Law Holiday Hours ✨
December 24 - January 2 and re-opening on January 5th.

We wish you and your family a joyful Happy Holidays and a wonderful New Year!

11/11/2025

Carmel Family Law honors the men and women in uniform who have served our country. 🇺🇸 We are truly grateful for your sacrifice.

10/31/2025

🎃⚖️ Happy Halloween from Carmel Family Law! ⚖️👻

No tricks here — just treating our clients to the best legal representation around. 🕷️💼

We know family matters can feel a little spooky sometimes — but you don’t have to face them alone. Whether it’s custody, support, or co-parenting concerns, we’re here to help bring clarity and calm to the chaos. 🧡⚖️

Wishing you and your loved ones a safe, fun, and drama-free Halloween! 🍬✨

10/20/2025

🎀October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 🎀

At Carmel Family Law, we stand beside the fighters, honor the survivors, and remember those we’ve lost. 💗

We’re proud to support awareness, early detection, and the ongoing fight for a cure. Together, we can make a difference — one step, one story, one survivor at a time.

08/09/2025

Carmel Family Law was pleased to sponsor the Osborne Trails Pickleball Tournament, featuring 63 participants, including our own Mary Wisehart, and a sizable crowd of spectators. Congratulations to the team champions!

07/24/2025

07/23/2025

Documenting communication with a co-parent can be essential—especially in high-conflict or legally sensitive situations. Here are practical and effective tips:
1. Choose the Right Communication Method
-Written formats are best for documentation:
-Text messages
-Emails
-Parenting apps (e.g., OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents, AppClose)

These provide automatic time/date stamps and are easy to archive.

2. Be Clear, Concise, and Respectful
-Stick to factual information.
-Avoid emotional language, name-calling, or sarcasm.
-Use a business-like tone, even if the other parent doesn’t.

3. Log Verbal Conversations
-After phone or in-person conversations, write a summary (include time/date, topic, etc).

4. Save Everything in One Place
-Keep all communication in organized folders (by month, topic, or child).
-Use a shared calendar (Google Calendar or a co-parenting app).

5. Document Missed Visits or Agreements
-Keep it objective and factual:
“You did not arrive for the 4 PM pickup on July 10. I waited until 4:30 before leaving.”

6. Avoid Editing Messages
-Don’t delete or heavily edit messages. Courts often review communication history for patterns. Screenshots should include timestamps and full conversations.

7. Backup Regularly
Export and save copies of texts, emails, and app logs.

8. Protect Your Privacy
-Set boundaries: Don’t allow the co-parent to contact you through informal channels like social media or shared family chats.
-Use apps that allow message monitoring or restrict editing/deleting.

Bonus: Use a Communication Log Template