10/09/2026
You move your things into your brother's spare room, and at 2 a.m. the fear hits: leaving just handed her the kids and the house.
New York's custody standard doesn't work that way. There is no prima facie right to custody in either parent. The court weighs what actually serves your child's best interests.
What actually costs people ground is walking out without anything in writing about the parenting schedule, who's covering which bills, or how the house gets used. Attorneys frequently find that cases arrive weaker simply because nobody documented the real routine once someone moved out, and six months later it's just two people remembering the same fall differently.
The earlier that arrangement gets put in writing, the more leverage you keep. Call us: 718-645-6677.