05/29/2026
Your divorce attorney is one of the most important hires you’ll make during your divorce. But most people walk into that first consultation without knowing what to ask.
Here are four questions I always recommend asking before you sign a retainer — because how an attorney answers these tells you everything about whether they’re the right fit for your case.
And here are a few more from my full MDC Guide to Interviewing Divorce Attorneys:
→ What percentage of your practice is devoted to divorce and family law?
→ Will I be working directly with you, or will paralegals handle parts of my case?
→ What are your fees and billing structure — and can you estimate total costs?
→ Can you provide references from past clients?
One more thing I tell every client: interview at least three attorneys before signing anything. The first one who seems good might not be the best one for your specific situation.
And — your attorney is only one part of your divorce team. I always recommend bringing in a CDFA® (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) as early as possible. A divorce-fluent financial expert can help you understand the short- and long-term implications of your settlement options in ways your attorney isn’t trained to. The right financial guidance doesn’t just protect your future — it can actually save you money on the divorce itself.
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